The first is the cold war, which is something that most couples will encounter in their relationships, but this kind of behavior is very hurtful. Many couples quarrel because of their personality, or they can't let go of their face and don't want to give in. If you don't bow your head and he doesn't admit his mistake, then the final result is the cold war. Nobody talks to anyone. The cold war is to make the other side bow their heads and apologize in this way, but if two people think so, then after a long time, the relationship between the two people will become cold, which will make the feelings of the two people weaker and weaker, and eventually break up.
Second, don't trust each other. Many people have no sense of security in their feelings and do not trust each other. They always want to check each other's mobile phone, read his WeChat, read all kinds of social software, and even ask each other to delete all heterosexual friends in the address book. This is the most disgusting thing. Some people have to report to themselves in advance where the other party is going, fearing that the other party will go to socialize, and finally call him one after another. Down-to-earth, let the other party not eat, and at the same time let the people at the same table laugh.
Trust is the most important thing in a relationship. If you always don't trust each other, your's relationship won't last long. You know, love is built on trust.
Third, the double standard behavior is serious. Because girls are more emotional, it is human nature to be sensitive and overbearing in love, but many girls often make some unequal demands on boys in the process of falling in love. For example, when you are angry, you ask a boy to apologize, but you never apologize when you get into trouble. Whether it is right or wrong, let men pay the bill and never refuse to bow their heads.
You know, any unequal relationship can't last long. A man loves you, so he will comfort you when you are emotional and let you go when you are overbearing. All this stems from his love for you, but you have to understand him and tolerate him. Love is mutual. Such double-standard behavior will break a man's heart.