I'm an adult after I went to college. I must learn to be independent and strong. Only in this way, I won't be particularly sad every time, especially reluctant to leave home. In fact, it is normal to go to college and leave home aboveboard, because home is a warm harbor where one's soul belongs, but when one grows up, one must have an independent life. Although a person is homesick, he should live independently and create his own world.
After going to college, it is normal to be reluctant to leave home every time, but people always have to grow up. Going to college is only a step towards maturity. At this time, they have left home, and chickens always fly high. After entering the university, make more friends, establish your own interpersonal circle, have your own independent activities, slowly forget your attachment to home, and keep your disappointment at home in your heart, which will make you adapt to the world faster and better.
When you are reluctant to part with your family, you can always contact your family, make phone calls and send WeChat every day, so that your family can know their own dynamics outside, pay attention to their changes at any time, and feel the warmth of your family, which will make your heart more peaceful, but don't be a mother's treasure, otherwise there will be certain defects in your personality, and it will be difficult for you to adapt to an independent life in the future. Even if you meet the other half you like, you can't get rid of your dependence on your family.
You can be reluctant to part with your family, but you can't be overly attached. Independence means independence, and strength means strength. You should know that you are the pillar of this family's future. When your parents are old, you need to take care of them yourself. If you are always a treasure and can't face life independently, it will only increase the burden on your parents and make them feel more uneasy about you, even if they are old one day.