But the reunion I experienced gave me the feeling that my heart was blocked and I couldn't get rid of this emotion for several days. Then I will share with you how I digested this sense of gap after attending the class reunion.
There are generally many university parties around me, such as junior high school and senior high school. Because many of them can't be contacted, students can't get together. University parties are very frequent. We graduated on 20 13, and organized a class reunion on 20 17. This is our first party after graduation, so it's very grand. Everyone will have a 500 yuan, so we will give more back and make up less. Anyway, I think I paid a little too much. My salary was only 3000. After paying the money, I will almost drink northwest wind next month.
Hand it in, then hand it in. Is this a party? Speaking of parties, my god. I always feel that the richest man in the world has come to our party. Why do you say that? Because our classmates are in that state, you know, they just can't wait to tell us how rich their family is, how many companies they have opened and how many Cadillac cars they have. Let us sit up and take notice of exaggerated and dazzling jobs, such as being admitted to civil servants or institutions. Does this emphasize the attitude of leaders in the meeting? Later, I learned that it was just a shop assistant. What are you pretending? We wish you luck when you pass the exam, but you don't have to show off here.
There are many other situations. For example, you are so confused that you don't even have someone to talk to. You said a word to me, and no one responded for a long time. Haha, it's so realistic.
After that, I won't attend the college reunion, because I am really hurt. It took me a long time to get comfortable and forget about it.
First, the heart is strong?
In fact, if you think about it carefully, the reunion is really not the focus of your life. There is no need to take this short party to heart. And the people inside are not the focus of your life, and there is not much intersection with you. If these people really spoil their mood, it's not worth it.
Second, communicate with other friends.
I think this method is also feasible, which can vent my depression about class reunion, because my friends also have class reunion. Everyone can gossip about many people and things in it, and you will feel comfortable physically and mentally after communicating with friends. Later, I found that this huge gap exists for everyone, so it would be much better for you to find good friends to vent some.
Third, we should strengthen our own study.
In fact, there will be a gap because of your lack of ability. Think about what a reunion is. Although some people show themselves in it, you can make yourself a strong person in one side. This requires us to strengthen our study at ordinary times. I remember going to my husband's classmate's party once, and there were things I experienced, but one made me sincerely admire, and the other was an ordinary migrant worker, who was ignored at the party. Then I made a phone call in English, haha. At that time, people who showed off their wealth also cast envious eyes. Later, I heard that people had finished IELTS and went to work in foreign companies.
Anyway, I don't want to experience the profound influence of class reunion, so I think I'd better strengthen my literacy. This is strong, and naturally you won't bother yourself because of the height of various eyebrows. Most importantly, there is really no need to take it to heart.