Their marriage was realistic and hasty. One is a graduate of West Point Military Academy, with extraordinary strength, great self-confidence and ambition, which can bring the expected prosperity to the woman; One is that she is good at dancing with long sleeves, has a wide range of social contacts, and her family is also rich, which can help her husband develop his career. We hit it off and won each other. So, less than a month from engagement to marriage, they flashed marriage.
Yes, the newlyweds are Wang Geng and Lu Xiaoman.
Wang Geng (1895— 1942), a native of Wuxi, Jiangsu, is a major general of the army. 19 1 1 Tsinghua was sent to the United States after graduation. He studied at the University of Michigan, Columbia University and Princeton University. 19 15 after obtaining a bachelor's degree in literature from Princeton University, he transferred to West Point Military Academy. When he 19 18 graduated from West Point Military Academy, he was 65438+. After returning home, Wang Geng worked in the Beiyang Warlords Department and attended the Paris Peace Conference with Lu Zhengxiang as the military attache of the China delegation. Later, he served as deputy commander of the Railway Protection Army of the Ministry of Communications and was promoted to Major General. 65438-0923 Director of Harbin Police Department.
The whole world is envious of this marriage, but Lu Xiaoman, who is used to the debauchery and dog life, is tired of the ending of this marriage. However, Wang Geng is a workaholic. He left home and took office before the honeymoon was over. Such a marriage is undoubtedly a gorgeous cage for Lu Xiaoman.
Therefore, God sent an affectionate poet, Xu Zhimo. It was also Wang Geng's connivance that gave them many opportunities to get along. Soon, thunder and lightning, two people fell in love.
For women, as long as a man's talent, wealth and looks are the same, it is an aphrodisiac for walking. This Xu Zhimo is slightly inferior to Wang Geng in finance, while the other two are much longer than him. Besides, there is another Wang Geng who is far less than Xu Zhimo, and that is the heart.
If a man is considerate, aware of cold and warm, familiar with and able to soothe a woman's loneliness and sadness, and puts his heart into a woman's heart, other things can be ignored by a woman, even if it is upside down. Smart as Zhang Ailing will fall into the sweet trap of Hu Lancheng, not to mention the lonely and painful Lu Xiaoman at this time?
Any extramarital affair, like a time bomb, may be discovered at any time. Because of "stealing", there is an unspeakable sense of tension and excitement. Cheaters love this deadly sense of official position and are infatuated with a little sweetness on the tip of this knife.
At that time, Xu Zhimo was also treading on two boats, communicating with Ling Shuhua and Lu Xiaoman at the same time.
One day, Xu Zhimo's father came with Wang Geng. Xu Zhimo took out Ling Shuhua's letter to please his father. While watching, laughing Wang Geng look wrong. Xu zhimo panicked. He looked at his pillow and suddenly complained that he accidentally handed Lu Xiaoman's letter.
Xu Zhimo wrote for the last time and quietly asked Lu Xiaoman to come to Shanghai for a date. Therefore, in this letter, Lu Xiaoman's letter is very affectionate, implying a quiet day and a fragrant day. Such a letter is undoubtedly more powerful than ambiguous information. Wang Geng left immediately, but there was no accident scene in which the fat man beat Xu Zhimo. Xu Zhimo couldn't wait to chop his hand.
Unfortunately, communication was inconvenient at that time. A few days later, Lu Xiaoman, who knew nothing, came to Shanghai as promised, but was stopped by Wang Geng. Wang Geng was angry with embarrassment and lost his mind. In front of his friends, he asked about the private messages of Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo. The two men had a big fight and broke up in discord. Both of them were deeply humiliated.
You must stop pampering your wife like this. Wang Geng is determined to take extreme measures to restrict Lu Xiaoman's personal freedom. He asked Lu Xiaoman not to go out alone, or even to have an appointment with a female friend.
One day, Lu Xiaoman's good friend Tang Ying asked her out. She was about to get on the bus when Wang Geng's car happened to drive to the door. Lu Xiaoman didn't listen to him, and Wang Geng was very angry. In full view, he shouted, "Are you a man? If the transaction is completed, it will not count. " The guests looked at each other and made an excuse to retreat. Lu Xiaoman was so wronged that he had the idea of divorce.
People are rebellious, the more depressed they are, the more they rebound, and the hotter their feelings are. In particular, forced suppression by high-pressure means is actually equivalent to pushing the other half to the other side. Forced separation can only give birth to the great power of "our love is the greatest, and we will break through all the forces that hinder us", making them more and more inseparable. If left unchecked, it may be that after satisfying the desire of "addiction and death", it may be found that after the passion burns out, the discord between them will naturally recede.
But at this moment, Wang Geng, blinded by his wife's hatred, can't tell these things apart? No man will watch his wife cheat and do nothing, will he? You can't kill Xu Zhimo, you can only control your wife.
Later, Wang Geng took office in the South. To be on the safe side, he intends to take Xiaoman with him. But at this time, Lu Xiaoman had a deep affection for Xu Zhimo and refused to go with Wang Geng. It is inevitable that the two will have a big fight, and they will not say anything. Xiaoman was in tears and was seriously ill.
Wang Geng also realized the disadvantages of the separation of husband and wife and wrote a letter to Lu Xiaoman: "If you miss the love of husband and wife, you will reunite south immediately." Such toughness can only make her show the fierceness of her final position, and a desperate impulse to love breaks out in her heart. Later, Wang Geng urged her to go to the south, and she simply compensated with her life: "If I have to go, I will die at once. I will die anyway, but maybe I can slow down. Why not die now? " Parents who have always opposed Xiaoman's divorce are too scared to force her.
In desperation, Xu Zhimo turned to Liu Haisu for help-Liu Ye was an "ambitious young man" who ran away from home to escape feudal marriage.
1925 In the early autumn of September, Liu Haisu arranged a "Hongmen Banquet" at the famous Kutokuhayashi Hotel, and invited Xu Zhimo, Lu Xiaoman, Wang Geng, Hu Shi and Tang Ying. At the banquet, Liu Haisu first talked about the happy life after escaping from marriage, and then talked about the marriage tragedy caused by marital disharmony, emphasizing that marriage without love is immoral. It's grandiose, but the meaning is clear. This is really a shame for men: my friend stole his wife, and other friends banded together to pressure him to do so. If someone else had changed, they would have smashed the table and made a big scene. But at this time, the commander-in-chief of the allied forces in the five provinces of Sun generously offered Liu Haisu a glass of wine: "Your words are very reasonable, and I am very inspired." . Then I said I had something to do and left first.
In the next two months, Wang Geng neither explicitly agreed to divorce, nor talked to Lu Xiaoman, nor even imposed strict restrictions on Lu Xiaoman. Here Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman live in a state of anxiety. At that time, Wang Geng made a painful choice in the great shame of life. If you are a bloody person, I'm afraid you are also thinking about how to retaliate. With a gun in his hand, Wang Geng's impulsive behavior in a rage is understandable.
Throughout the ages, the world has been praising the greatness of love, especially the extramarital affairs under the traditional arranged marriage system. You love each other so much that you can't forget it. That boring original match is disgusting and a stumbling block to you. But you are true love. How is he? He has done nothing wrong. Why let him bear the great humiliation in life alone? Is this fair?
It's hard for us to imagine what Wang Geng has suffered in these two months. Xu Zhimo can write poems, and he will exaggerate his pain in his poems for future generations to mourn. Wang Geng, a soldier, could not say these words. His pain is silent, secret, shameful and indescribable.
Finally, one night, Wang Geng said to Lu Xiaoman, "I've thought about it for a long time. Since you are not satisfied with me, we have to break up. Actually, I still love you, so I thought about it for two months. These two months have also made you think clearly about whether you are really suitable for Zhimo. "
The little man bowed his head and said nothing. Wang Geng sighed and agreed to divorce.
After completing the formalities, Wang Geng said to Xu Zhimo: "I have divorced Xiaoman, and I have no prejudice in my heart; But from now on, you must agree with her. If you are half-hearted, tell me, and I will definitely confront her with fierce means. "
Then two battles broke out, and the national army and the Japanese army fought fiercely. As a brigade commander, Wang Geng appeared alone in the Concession, and the military map also fell into the hands of the Japanese, which led to the loss of the position and the failure of the China War. He was sentenced to two years and six months for this.
It was Xu Zhimo's plane crash. He left the war to comfort his miserable ex-wife Lu Xiaoman.
Love is deep and righteous!
Two years in prison infected him with kidney disease, and his health has been poor since then. There is no improvement in work. 1942 died of depression in Egypt.
If you love someone too much, you will often be slow to speak. He never said Xu Zhimo's sweet words, but spent his whole life practicing his deep love for Xiaoman. In the prime of life, he suffered great humiliation of winning love in a horizontal knife. He bit his teeth, swallowed blood and endured enrichment. Wang Geng's talent and personality are admirable.
But such love and pain, Lu Xiaoman can't see. Just as Xu Zhimo can't see the love and pain of Zhang Youyi, Mei Lanfang can't see the love and pain of Meng Xiaodong. Perhaps love will never be equal and fair. Isn't it?