But as college students, we should also learn to communicate with others more, so as to better integrate into the collective life, to constantly exercise and grow, and to become better.
There are many ways to learn to communicate with others. The following points can be used as a reference:
1. Learn to put yourself in other's shoes.
People should learn to put themselves in each other's shoes and think from each other's standpoint, so that we can understand each other better. When we all know how to put ourselves in each other's shoes, our tolerance will be effectively improved and chatting will become more pleasant and efficient.
2. Talk about topics of mutual interest
When communicating with others, we should talk about topics of interest to each other, which is what we often say. Talking about the same topic usually makes people feel happy, and the resulting * * * will make people expect us to communicate more.
3. Learn to praise others sincerely
A wise man should learn to praise others sincerely, but it is unwise to oppose others. Even if you don't agree with other people's views, it's best not to say it in public at once. If it's not important, don't say it. Learn to praise others sincerely, and communication will be smoother and happier.
4. Learn to listen to other people's opinions
Everyone has ideas to express. You can learn to listen when you meet someone who needs to express something. Remember, when you learn to listen, you will become smarter and be liked by more and more people. Pay attention to what others say and listen attentively to what others say, so that communication will become smoother and we will know how to respect others.
5. Confirm before making suggestions.
When we have good suggestions, we should first recognize each other's views, and then put forward any reasonable suggestions. Only by using euphemistic suggestions can we achieve better communication effect and communicate more smoothly and efficiently.