1, mentality is very important
First of all, it must be clear that egoism is a taboo in collective life and must be resolutely abandoned. I believe that many freshmen are only children. They are spoiled by grandparents and loved by their parents at home. Everyone treats you as a treasure and everything is centered on you. But you have to think that you are the baby at home, and so are your classmates in your dormitory, so you can't ask others to accommodate you in everything. You should learn to respect, tolerate, tolerate and care for others. This is a necessary lesson for your growth.
People who can't put themselves in others' shoes can't feel others' feelings immediately, so they won't consider others' feelings. Learning to empathize can make it easier for you to understand other people's practices and ideas, and also make yourself truly tolerant and understanding. For example, when others are sleeping, be quiet, watch videos and listen to music, put on headphones, and don't talk too loudly during lunch break.
2. Don't take it too seriously
* * * Living under the same roof, you must be tired if you are too serious. For example, you don't have to worry too much about trivial things, such as pestering him not to be on duty once, pestering him not to accidentally knock over your cosmetics, pestering him not to bring you lunch, pestering him not to help you in class, pestering him not to help you get the courier, pestering him why his exam scores are always higher than yours, and so on.
Everyone's temper determines that there must be something they like and dislike to do. You can't force others to do it Instead of counting on others' help, you might as well be down to earth.
3. Respect and tolerance
If you want others to respect yourself, you must first learn to respect others. We are all classmates and completely equal individuals. We shouldn't despise any dormitory member because of the difference between rich and poor, native place and so on. Especially if there are students from poor families in the dormitory, we should pay more attention. These students are usually more sensitive. Roommates should pay more attention to their manners and avoid causing unnecessary burden to others.
Dormitory members come from all corners of the country and have different living habits. It is inevitable that there will be some bumps. In fact, if you study it carefully, it is nothing more than trivial matters. You have to understand that the other party didn't mean it. Who would be deliberately annoying? You can handle it in an appropriate way, such as talking to him alone in private, and don't have a head-on conflict on impulse. Take a step back and broaden the horizon.
4. Mutual assistance and friendship
Everyone will encounter difficulties and sometimes need help from others. You need to take care of yourself when you are sick, comfort you when your exam results are not good, and enlighten you when you are lovelorn ... We are all children away from home, extending warm hands to each other, so that the days away from home are not cold.
It is a rare fate for everyone to gather in this small dormitory from all corners of the country. You should spend the precious four years of your life together. There are too many reasons for us to cherish this fate and get along with love, and you will have more brothers or sisters.
5. Control your temper
The moment you step into the university, you are no longer a wayward child, but a growing adult. No one should tolerate your unreasonable and short temper, and no one should be your punching bag. No matter what kind of environment you are in, you must learn to control your temper in order to get along more harmoniously with others.
If you have any questions about your roommate, you can say them in a joking and relaxed tone, but you must pay attention to your discretion and don't say anything that makes you unhappy. EQ is different from IQ and can be improved in the process of communication with people. You will find the most suitable expression by trying and listening many times.
In fact, only after you finish college for a few years will you find that your roommates and classmates have unconsciously become the key figures in your life. Therefore, if you "manage" your feelings with your heart, you will certainly gain good memories and have more good brothers and girlfriends for life!