The most important thing for a university is to improve itself and improve itself. As long as you are good enough, those people will come to you on their own initiative. On the contrary, people who blindly attach importance to gregarious and give up on themselves will be labeled as cowardice and rejection by others and gradually drift away.
University is a small society. Not everyone in the society likes you, and you don't have to force others. You don't like others, and others don't necessarily like you. Even if you force yourself to get along with him, it will not bring good results.
In my opinion, there is no need for universities to make so many friends. A few sincere ones are enough. How many people will come to see you after graduation? How many people will help you when you are in trouble? It is true that in the eyes of others, you may be a well-connected person, but it will not be of much use to you. On the contrary, it will bring you a lot of unhappiness, and it is really tiring to play with people you don't like.
Can forcing yourself to get along with classmates you don't like make you seem gregarious? This is a very strange question. There is no need for anyone to get along with classmates he doesn't like. One or two people will not change this social circle, just be yourself.
There is nothing wrong with using EQ where you think it is worth treating! I think getting along with others is one's own choice. Those who are "unsociable" in society live as freely and smartly. The reason why we live is not to cater to others, but to make ourselves valuable. In my opinion, being yourself is the most important thing. Only by living well can we face others.