There has been a lot of news hype about naked strips recently. At that time, I couldn't figure out why these female college students are so open now that they can do anything without a bottom line for money.

As the saying goes, sick parents can mortgage their last mile in order to borrow money. Isn't that just hitting their parents in the face? My first reaction is really: My wife is so sorry for her parents.

Later, I learned that some of these female college students want to open online stores, some want to do other businesses, and of course some of them are purely for their own consumption. In short, the ultimate goal is to enjoy in order to get money.

Every time something comes out, there are always people with ulterior motives speculating. For example, people from other societies go to naked loans, which is probably not so hot. But once the concept of female college students is added, it may be a fire. After all, female college students must be a group of intellectuals in the eyes of many people. Such an explosion naturally subverts the image of female college students in many people's minds, and of course it also arouses the curiosity of many others and spreads widely.

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I remember when I was in college, the girls in my class were quite simple. It is normal for girls to compete with each other, but it is unthinkable to sell themselves for money. I grew up in the northern countryside, and I remember the appearance of rural girls, very simple. Not only have you mastered the basic survival skills of cooking since childhood, but in many families with brothers and sisters, girls are the patrons of younger brothers and sisters. Family management is strict, and the idea of son preference is more or less everywhere, but it is not very serious. The most is to have a boy, or give birth to a girl for others. Other educational or material things have little influence on boys and girls.

Yesterday, I listened to the classical teacher's discussion about "Reflections on Loki". At that time, I gave an example, saying that some children who have always been excellent in their studies are very confused after leaving society because they have family members to help them at every stage of development. As a result, one day, their family members are old and can't help them anymore, but the children have risen from the bottom to the top, so if we go forward, the children will not be needed. So, I couldn't adapt and fell badly. Here, I think of some disadvantages of our family education, that is, overindulgence. According to my cousin in Japan, Japanese children follow adults, for example, when they suddenly fall in the snow, adults will not help them and let them stand up and walk. We may sound a little cruel, but in fact, such children grow up with great vitality.

I want to say that family education needs to grasp a degree at any time, that is, to fully give children what they need to grow up. The contribution here also includes the teaching of survival skills, but it is not coquetry.

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From this, I came into contact with the education of girls in family education. For thousands of years, there has been a slogan proverb "Boys are poor and girls are rich". Up to now, some people are still insisting, while others are even more opposed. Of course, there are still more people who insist than those who oppose it. For me, there must be a reason to insist on this sentence, even if times have changed.

First, let's go back to history. It was a matriarchal society 7000 years ago. Men had no status at that time. Girls usually live with their mothers and uncles. What is a one-night stand now? At that time, it was popular that girls would take them home when they met men they liked, and then leave by themselves to help them complete their childbearing. The children born also follow the woman's surname, and the main crops are produced by women. So in the first half of farming civilization, thanks to the wisdom of women, men just went out hunting or something. It was only in the era of the Yellow Emperor five thousand years ago that the transition from male power to female power began. During the tribal period, a tribe was still very powerful. As an outstanding young man at that time, the Yellow Emperor did not fear the strong suppression of Lei Zu's family, but only won a bright light for the majority of men and gradually opened the era of male chauvinism. In the following 1000 years, it was said that men knocked women out in order to get wives, and then took them away from them. Four thousand years ago, the patriarchal society was officially opened, so when everything was reversed, women became vulnerable groups for a long time, so in many families, girls became typical representatives of grandma and uncle who didn't love. I don't know where the word "men are superior to women" began. But it had a lot to do with the background of the times, so since then, men have mastered more means of production and resources, and women's status has been further reduced, so there has been a later exchange of values, and women have exchanged their reproductive value for the survival value given by men.

Because of this, compared with men, women are insecure. From Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory, firstly, physiological needs are the first level. The physiology here is more about survival, survival, so people do everything to survive under extreme conditions. Besides, these women don't have any means of production and resources, so smarter families will give more to girls when raising them. Why? Girls will get married sooner or later. Everyone knows that boys will inherit this family sooner or later. So, give it to boys less. First, boys don't care too much. Second, to prevent too many boys from losing the ability to run this family because of inflation, so they have rich girls.

Let's talk about the naked strip incident. At first glance, it's just buying a bag to do business and opening a micro-store. In fact, in-depth analysis, if you let the girl see this before she set foot in the feasting, what business should she do? She calls home when she has no money. Online stores can be opened, and your family will invest in you. With these, girls will still go to naked loans.

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Compared with the poor, it is rich, rich, and of course not spoiled. The so-called enrichment is to meet your normal needs to the maximum extent and guide you to have certain abilities. This viability is a broad concept, such as the self-protection of girls. In the face of complex society, they are not so easily deceived. Here, I want to make an advertisement for Shaanxi girls. I remember Shaanxi girls, no matter whether they have money at home or not. I learned the basic skills of cooking at an early age, and many girls in Shaanxi belong to the temperament of elegance with hard bones, that is, under normal circumstances, the girls you meet should be gentle and virtuous, but in an emergency or being cheated, many girls in Shaanxi are not afraid of weakness. This temperament is just a girl's version of "a gentleman can bend and stretch."

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How big is the concept of boys finding true love? A famous mathematician has calculated by Fermi estimation method, which is lower than the probability of finding an alien civilization with intelligent life in the Milky Way. Although there is a person here who has requirements for his future partner, I think this has a lot to do with the family education of girls, especially in China today, where the ratio of male to female is 120: 100. It is very necessary to raise girls, not only for their own future, but also for the country and society. Isn't it the parents of these girls who were slapped this time?

Raising girls in poverty is a crime in a sense.