From my personal point of view, student love has become an irresistible trend. Should students fall in love? As far as the official language is concerned, this is a serious problem and should be treated correctly according to the situation. But to me, it's bullshit. Although sometimes it may be good not to give a unique answer to a question, I just want to discuss my personal views here.

Let's talk about the purpose of students going to school first! Every parent just wants their children to study hard at school, get into a good university and find a good job in the future. Of course, children will not fully understand this ardent hope of their parents. They are worried that their youth will be buried in the endless sea of books at school. Some parents think that their children are stupid, can't learn well and have no hope of going to college. They encourage their son to find a beautiful girl to be his wife at school, and their son will inherit the family business in the future. As for whether to live in the open space or continue to expand the family business, it depends on their own skills.

Of the two, the former is mostly in cities and the latter is mostly in rural areas.

For students who fall in love, the measures taken by the school are generally very strict, but this strictness has not completely eliminated the phenomenon of falling in love. On the contrary, it adds fuel to the fire and makes the wind of love more violent. Not only do high school students and college students wander around the street all day, but junior high schools and primary schools sometimes seem to be in pairs. This is not only a problem for schools and parents, but also a social phenomenon worthy of our consideration.

In this society where material and spiritual life are eroded, everyone seems to have forgotten the national humiliation and family feud of that year, and only remember to seek status and earn money in this society. There are fierce struggles in all walks of life. The apparent calm seems to be just an illusion. It seems that these have nothing to do with students. However, today's two-year-olds know who is good and who is bad. But when I grow up, I gradually stop talking and dare not criticize. I sometimes pretend to smile even when I see someone I hate, but I don't know what to say when I see someone I like. Yes, growing up, getting more and more stupid! Children, seeing their parents' helplessness, will always have some influence unconsciously. The rebellion of youth makes them eager to grow up, eager to share more for their parents and resist the burden of life and society for their parents. Send people you don't like away to your parents, and bring people you like home to your parents. However, these seem difficult to achieve. In this society, everyone is under pressure, which is invisible, but can be clearly felt. However, this kind of pressure is always transmitted to us invisibly through parents or teachers. After all, teachers and parents have different pressures every day.

However, these do not seem to be the main reasons for students' love. What is the reason? It is the state that our school and parents have always rejected love, but they have not really understood why children fall in love. Just because they grow up, they are lonely, and they don't care anymore. They grew up and got rid of the plush toys that accompanied them. Similarly, their parents are increasingly alienated from them. Parents have nothing to say but care about their grades, which makes them more and more indifferent. I don't think a child who grew up in a warm family will fall in love.

What's more, we find that most of the school courses are for the pursuit of grades, and it seems that there are not many people who really work for life. And even fewer can truly reflect human nature. This is not an accusation, but we have blind roads for the blind and billboards to protect flowers and plants. Why can't there be courses to improve people's moral cultivation and ideological and moral cultivation? School, a place to educate people. However, the premise of adulthood is to be a man. Kindergarten teachers teach children to be obedient, primary school teachers teach students to be honest, junior high school teachers teach students not to fight, and senior high school teachers teach students to work hard. If you don't study hard today, try to find a job tomorrow. University teachers teach you knowledge and let you adapt to society. Maybe the quality of the university is there, and the purpose of their love is just vanity. And both parties in love know everything after graduation. Moreover, high school, junior high school and even primary school students fall in love too early.

Perhaps because of the development of science and technology, pigs can grow up in a few months and chickens can be on the market in a few weeks. For some fruits and vegetables, fertilizers and auxin are abused. Are people precocious? There is an obvious social phenomenon that children are generally unhappy. Since childhood, they have encountered many troubles, and no one has told them that they are eager to find someone they can rely on. I long for someone to spoil and love her. I am eager to prove my existence to others. What about those who study well and those who study poorly? Learning is not as good as others, and parents are still looking forward to it with good wishes. The teacher seems to ignore it, but feels that every class is suffering in an ocean of pain. Helpless, instead of studying hard all day without results, it is better to let go of yourself and have an affair.

To put it bluntly, there is no parental care. If schools and families can give them enough care, maybe there will be no wind of love. If the society has special courses to analyze people's psychological problems and strengthen moral and ethical courses, I believe it will save more addicted students from awakening. Really pursue your dreams and never give up. Try to find the realization of your own value, instead of having nothing after an affair, and you can only be depressed for life after all.

Who still remembers Premier Zhou's phrase "study for the rise of China"? The purpose of our study is to serve the motherland.

I think students can be greedy for love. But I also hope to have a campus love rule. Protect those ignorant children. Don't cast a shadow over life for a moment's vanity.