Ordinary people pay attention to the economic foundation and need to have a house and a car. This is not considered by graduate students and doctors, and well-educated people can attract them more. Ordinary people just want to earn a little more money, and both graduate students and doctors want to contribute to society. Ordinary people's thoughts are relatively simple. Many people cheat their other half, but they still stay married. On the contrary, graduate students and doctors are more demanding and simpler, and their tolerance for the other half will not increase indefinitely.
Ordinary people will accept online dating, but graduate students and doctors will not. They still like traditional introductions from relatives and friends, so that people they know are more secure and reliable. Although graduate students and doctors have high academic qualifications, most of them have traditional ideas. It is precisely because of the ideological tradition that I can be obedient, study hard and endure the unbearable loneliness of ordinary people. Years later, I got a proud degree with my own research.
In order to train graduate students or doctors, some families don't let their children touch anything except study. There is a news report that a doctor can't even tie his shoelaces, and his mother is responsible for his daily life. Although this example is an example, it also reflects that graduate students and doctors have lost many due abilities when they get a high degree, such as how to pursue a girl. People who have no ability know how to coax girls with sweet words; Capable people don't talk much.
Ordinary people's cognition of love is to eat, drink and be merry. If graduate students and doctors fall in love, they must seriously discuss marriage, family, children and other issues. Although the idea is right, this way will still make people feel uncomfortable. When two people can't be relaxed together, it's over. Learn if you succeed, and learn if you fail.