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I still miss him after graduating from college, because I broke up in a different place. Should I disturb him?
I don't think you should bother him, because now you two are out of place, and you're not sure if the other person will miss you. Blind contact with each other will only make both sides feel embarrassed. Even if you two have unfinished wishes and finally choose to get back together, you two have to face a realistic problem, that is, long-distance love. More than 80% of long-distance relationships can't go to the end. If you two still break up because of long-distance love, what's the point of getting back together

If one of you is willing to give up your career and come to the city where the other person lives, maybe you can get back together and go to the end, but since you have chosen to break up in a different place, I believe no one is willing to give up their ideals for the other party.

I can't help but miss each other when I just break up, but I will soon forget it as time goes by. When you find someone you like again, this feeling will gradually disappear. In college, every graduation season, many couples will choose to break up, and they will be reluctant to hold hands. Boys choose to drink crazily and forget the pain, while girls bury themselves in the quilt and cry loudly. It's so painful, but they all know that there will be no chance to be together in the future.

Reality is not a romantic drama, so don't be full of fantasy. In many romantic dramas, two couples fell in love in junior high school or college, then separated for some reason, grew up in different cities, and got together again after work because of fate. By this time, everyone should have guessed the plot, that is, after being apart for so long, we have to get back together and meet again.

The possibility of this happening in reality is very low. Even if we meet again, one of them may talk about the other object. If you bother them blindly, it is likely to bring unnecessary trouble to each other. And after being apart for so long, my personality has changed a long time ago. If we are still together at this time, there will inevitably be various contradictions. Long pain is better than short pain. Hold back your thoughts and turn your attention to work or study. After a while, you won't feel so bad.