Then Aunt Deng called me for the first time. She told me to study hard on the phone and said that she and her sister were willing to bear my expenses until I graduated from college. Later, Aunt Deng repeatedly mentioned subsidizing tuition and living expenses until I graduated from college, and asked me to apply to schools in big cities such as Beijing and Shanghai. During this period, my sister also called me and sent me some counseling materials.
In 2005, I was admitted to Shanghai Fisheries University. Aunt Deng and my sister came to meet me at the railway station in person. Aunt Deng and I hugged each other tightly and burst into tears. Later, Aunt Deng accompanied me to report to the school, helped me pay my tuition, sent me living expenses on a monthly basis, and said that I would call them as long as I was short of money.
After school started, I was appointed as the monitor by the counselor and later became a student union cadre. But Aunt Deng asked me to quit the Student Union, because I was a poor child, and my first month as a student union cadre was spent on a telephone bill of 90 yuan. Despite my many explanations, she stuck to her opinion. In this case, I adopted my classmates' opinions and pretended to promise Aunt Deng, but I was still a student union cadre.
At school, it takes almost 400 yuan to eat every month, and 500 yuan to pay the utilities. Aunt Deng has been giving me living expenses according to this standard. However, in September, I spent 175 yuan on hepatitis B vaccine at school. I told my sister's assistant about this situation, and then Aunt Deng called me. She said I was bored and only asked them for money. I should try to solve some unexpected situations by myself. I should respect myself. ...
That time I apologized to my aunt with tears in my eyes. But I was still very sad afterwards, because Aunt Deng told me on the phone that her dogs were more obedient than me. I asked myself, am I really worse than a dog? In fact, in order to reduce their burden, I also work as an assistant counselor at school. However, I paid my mother the salary for the first two months, because my mother was very ill and had no money for treatment. After that, I never dared to ask them for money again.
Later, my sister's assistant came to me and took all the letters and photos written by Aunt Deng and my sister, saying that my sister needed to do a program. Aunt Deng came to school again to learn about the situation, which stimulated me a lot this time. After that, Aunt Deng and my sister became even colder to me. At this time, the counselor and I had a heart-to-heart talk. She told me that she would help me fight for the poverty subsidy of the school. She said that a person's personality and self-esteem are very important, so let me weigh the pros and cons and make an appropriate choice.
From June 2005 165438+ 10 to now, I have called Aunt Deng every holiday, but she ignored me. Our aid relationship also ended in June 2005 165438+ 10. My sister's phone has also been transferred to the Chinese secretary desk, so I can't reach her. I texted her and didn't reply. Maybe my sister is busy.
According to Qiu Chaoju's later statement on CCTV's "Society and Law" program, Sun Li's donation was right and also a gratitude to Christina, but why did it end like this? So he wants to discuss the topics of charity, donation and love from the perspective of social ethics.
Qiu Chaoju posted a notice that "a star mother and daughter have enmity with a poor college student" in the "Chongqing reporter's home" forum in Xici.
After seeing the notice on the forum, Chongqing Evening News reporters Long Zhun and Wu Yingying keenly felt that this was a sensational theme and immediately found the poster. Qiu Chaoju said in an interview: 1, don't name Sun Li, after all, Sun Li and her daughter took the initiative to help poor students; Second, don't call Hai Qinghe's school name, so as not to affect his studies and school.
Chongqing Evening News reporter readily agreed. At the same time, the two sides agreed that Qiu Chaoju would first disclose the full text of the letter on Tianya blog, and Chongqing Evening News reported the matter as "Qiu Chaoju Tianya blog disclosure". However, in order to avoid possible negative effects, the report of the Evening News was not published in electronic form.
In the early morning of June 29th, 2006, Qiu Chaoju published his letter to Christina on his Tianya blog, with the topic "Why Kind Seeds Produce Mutant Fruits-The Hatred and Hatred between a Poor College Student and a Star Mother and Daughter". This paper only makes a technical treatment-Sun Li's name is changed to "Star SL", but it is specially suggested that the star is "Shanghainese, and China holds up half the sky". Later, some media said that it was easy to infer the true identity of the star after reading his blog.
On the same day, the entertainment section of Chongqing Evening News reported the news that "the star had a disagreement with the subsidized poor college students" and extracted the main contents of the letter to Christina.
Although the report of Chongqing Evening News did not go online, it did not affect the spread of this matter on the Internet.
Huashang.com was the first to reprint it. This kind of news with both star information and complex connotation has attracted many media, and many domestic websites, BBS, blogs and media have been involved in this storm.
Although Qiu Chaoju's blog and Chongqing Evening News both reported that Sun Li was replaced by sl and Christina was replaced by Zhang Haiqing, at the same time, the "Shanghai Fisheries University" where he studied was omitted. However, netizens quickly exposed the real situation of the recipients and their schools through human flesh search.
Although Qiu Chaoju's Tianya blog, the report of Chongqing Evening News and the reprint of Chinese businessmen. Netizens are obviously reluctant to discuss topics belonging to sociologists online. The "star effect" makes public opinion almost one-sided.
One of the political parties became the target of public criticism. The opinions against him mainly include: he has the idea of dependence and only asks for help from others, not for his own salvation; Seeing that there is money at home, I feel a little unbalanced and feel that it doesn't matter to spend more money; Telling Qiu Chaoju what happened between them is a bit bite the hand that feeds you. Han Han even wrote in bitter language on his blog: "Ordinary people are not allowed to raise dogs in cities. Why can Sun Li keep wolves in Shanghai? " In a short sentence, taking "raising wolves" as a metaphor, it is ironic that the college students helped by Sun Li are "wolves". Huge appeal and influence, for a time the forum blog was full of "wolves". Some people in Tianya community even claimed to set up a "white-eyed sect" and made fun of Zhang Haiqing.
The opinions of Sun Li's mother and daughter are as follows: Did Sun Li's mother ever say that "her dogs are more obedient than Christina", and if she did, it would hurt Christina's self-esteem; Did Sun Li's mother ask Christina to resign as a student union cadre? If so, she attached a donation condition that should not be attached; It's a little petty to stop funding for these reasons.
There are not many opinions about Qiu Chaoju, mainly questioning the behavior of "posting private messages to Christina on the blog". The national top 100 reporter, who was nearly half a century old, couldn't stand the insults and abuse of some "angry youths" and had to close his Tianya blog four days later.
While the internet and print media hyped this matter, CCTV reflected on this incident with a calm attitude. 65438+On February 23, 24 and 25, 2006, CCTV's "Everyone's Views" reported this matter in detail with the title "Sun Li's donation caused a storm". Then, on June 5438+1October 9, 2007, CCTV's "Social Records" program, with the title of "Seeds and Fruits", started with the event of Sun Li Donation Gate, showing the audience the ins and outs of Qiu Chaoju and the poor students who donated money, which triggered social thinking about the form of donation and how to treat love.
Qiu Chaoju expelled poor college students because of the exposure of this incident. Therefore, Southern Metropolis Daily listed Qiu Chaoju as the third among the "Top Ten Pushers in China 10" in the report of "2006 Network Yearbook" on June, 2007. On April 18 of the same year, Phoenix Satellite TV Information Channel reported the ranking of Internet promoters in mainland China in 2006 in the nightly program Phoenix Information List, and Qiu Chaoju ranked fifth.
At this point, the Sun Li donation event has come to an end.