Mother Zhou in the community is such a typical parent. My daughter is in the second grade of primary school, and her academic performance is very good. Mother Zhou is a very strict person. Under her own pressure, the child's performance has been very good. Daughter Yao Yao has no close friends, and the child will be lonely forever. In the second semester of her daughter's second grade, Yao Yao made a new friend, Xiao Ting. The little girl is very sweet and cheerful, but her brain is a little dull and she is a poor student. When she took her little friend home for the first time, Zhou's mother was very unhappy after learning about her achievements, and her attitude changed immediately. At dinner, she didn't look like a hostess at all, and she didn't feel worried about her daughter Yao Yao, so she rushed back to Xiao Ting and said, "If you don't go back to your mother, you should be worried. Go back first and play next time. Yao Yao has to do his homework, and he has no time to play with you in the future. "

In Li Jie's son's class, most parents are "cold" about their children making friends with poor students. There was a time when a classmate of my son called every day to ask for homework. At that time, Li Jie thought it was a good thing for children to help students with learning difficulties.

"But a week later, I found something was wrong. This classmate calls every day to say that he can't do the problem and asks his son for help. That's half an hour. I told my son that helping my classmates is not just to meet his requirements, but to learn to refuse. Students should provide help in time when they have difficulties, but enough is enough. Calling every day not only wastes your time, but also encourages him not to listen carefully in class and always rely on others. "

Many children with poor grades are not without merit. They may spend more time on their own interests, and they are often versatile, attractive and more popular with their classmates.

There is such a girl in my son's class. Her grades are always at the bottom of the class, but she is good at dancing. She often participates in some cultural activities on behalf of the class and is very popular with her classmates. These children have poor grades, but they are lively, cheerful and easy to get along with.