The former counselor of Wu Da University was accused of being a PUA girl. How did this happen? Dalin used to be a student union cadre of Wuhan University. He served as a college counselor during his graduate studies and joined Huawei in June 2020. Before waking up, the students all thought that Dalin was a student union cadre with strong working ability and a warm-hearted counselor. Dalinpu, pay attention to everything? Step by step? . At first, it was normal for Dalin to chat with them; After a while, Dalin will point out their shortcomings and say that she is willing to help them improve their speech and interview skills. Then, Dalin will let them go to the school office for closed training and study barefoot. When they are in conflict, Dalin will send photos and videos of other girls barefoot to persuade them; For the girls who cooperate, Dalin will let them take off their coats, only wear underwear, and recite them standing or kneeling; After success, let the girls take nude photos; When taking pictures, Dalin will also have physical contact with them. According to informed girls, Dalin has continued the above behavior since joining Huawei.
How to protect yourself in the face of PUA? I think what women should do is to establish a correct outlook on life and independent personality, read more good books about both sexes at ordinary times, learn to communicate on an equal footing and enjoy communication in gender relations, and actively participate in daily life for young women with insufficient life experience, expand interpersonal communication, accumulate experience and grow up. You also advocate taking an active part in the school's emotional psychology class and exchanging experiences with friends and family, so you will naturally be immune to some so-called bad routines.
Personally, to some extent, the essence of PUA is to teach men to attract women in a way that women accept. Its important basic theory comes from women. The initial function of returning to PUA is to make better use of the special tools of communication between two people to help men improve their self-confidence. It's not just users who don't hurt people.
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