I do admire you! I can't believe I've come this far. It's hard to go in and talk without being treated as nonsense. Let's talk about whether there is a leader in the group you want to join. Different situations require different methods. If not, it would be much easier. As long as the villagers benefit and do practical things for them, they will find opportunities to let you in for their own benefit. If there is a leader, he is very powerful. Either you join them or you go home. In fact, it is the distribution of benefits, you have to understand.