Writing | Zhang Hanyu

Image | Moore University

Rewriting and Sharing: Wang Aiping

Zhan is the founder of Moore University, the first Internet life growth university in China. Founder of many platforms such as "Beautiful Group" and "Beautiful Living Method", and initiator of social welfare project "Protecting the Earth".

For the first time after the epidemic, I couldn't wait to fly from Beijing to Guangzhou, from free courses to taking the initiative to place orders, and then paying for a date with the goddess after class.

The meeting address is Guangzhou Five-Star Intercontinental Hotel (a member of the Intercontinental Ambassador sent by Teacher Ye), which just comes in handy and the room is upgraded for free. Check out at 4 o'clock in the evening, full VIP experience), the location is very good, the whole venue is not noisy at all, standing firmly in Sri Lanka.

In the conference hall on the fourth floor of the hotel, more than 280 people from at least 30 different cities gathered for a common theme: wealth and wisdom.

The speaker is an interviewer.

Downing, the founder of Moore University.

In seven days, she wrote a best-selling book, Living the Quality of Life. In this book of nearly 65,438+500,000 words, Downing used her years of study experience and practice without reservation.

She has always been a very diligent person. For more than ten years, she often worked at least ten hours a day. She is full of energy, attaches importance to efficiency and never lacks creativity. Even a few years ago, Downing's "diligence" was amazing. Even if she is an organizer, she often studies all the time, "devote herself wholeheartedly and respect the teachers who share wisdom." She never misses an opportunity to be a teaching assistant. During the break, she often stood in the tea break area and asked the students if they understood what the teacher said. If in doubt, she will help answer the questions.

Compared with a year or two ago, Downing's work efficiency has improved a lot. Daily management, team building and communication, online sharing, offline workshop preparation and lectures, plus writing a book, nothing is lacking. Many things go hand in hand, and it's hard not to be anxious, but Downing doesn't seem to be disturbed. She said that this is largely because of the "sense of existence." In the class of "living the quality of life", this passage of Tang Ning made many people scream, "I am not afraid of losing, I don't expect to get it. Don't regret the past and don't worry about the future. " Living wholeheartedly at this moment, firmly rooted in what she is doing now, is the most important point she is willing to share with the people who come to the lecture.

How to calm down from the restless and busy "monkey brain" and enter the "presence" state? How to break away from limited ideas and thinking and live a new and creative quality life? Tang Ning shared two tools that he summed up after years of research: consciousness and correction. Awareness is to see all kinds of emotions and thoughts in your mind truthfully, just to see, not to suppress, not to judge, not to do anything. In Downing's case, correction means adjusting the internal picture of the incident. If you encounter something that makes you uncomfortable and depressed, you can naturally change the external part by correcting its internal visual picture instead of changing its external part. Of course, in more detail, I want to go to her class or read her new book.

All real actions come from inner touch. There is a saying in The Little Prince that is deeply rooted in people's hearts: "If you want to build a boat, don't catch a group of people to collect materials, don't command them to do this or that, you just need to awaken their desire for the sea." In Downing, the sea is the wisdom of life. Because she deeply realized the preciousness of wisdom and its gift to life, she launched many platforms, such as "Moore University" and "Good Life", and took the initiative to stand on the platforms to share her feelings with the audience. "Many people don't see the great benefits that wisdom brings to life, and don't see how much your reward and reward will be if you go all out to do it. In fact, wisdom is the basic structure of life. When your wisdom goes up, the quality of all aspects of life will naturally come up. "

Downing hopes that through Moore University and everything he has done, people will awaken their desire for life wisdom and their pursuit of quality of life, so as to get out of the sad and limited plot and actively create a better life in their hearts. This road, which has just begun, is long and Xiu Yuan, but she is carefree. She is convinced that if a person works on the road, any support he needs will be in place at the same time. "Polishing the quality he endowed from the perspective of output will make it more and more refined and mature", just do it.

I asked her, how did you get where you are today?

Tang Ning said: I never set limits for myself. Many roads can go hand in hand.

Q: About desire. I think one of the important reasons why many people come to your class is that your grades are very convincing, which makes everyone more convinced that I want to do the same. How far do you think it is from the perspective of desire, such as what I want, what I want, to the true love in my heart, to the feeling of "being present" you said?

Tang Ning: There is no standard for a person to achieve more and more. It is possible that some people will have a more mature stage through several epiphanies. It is also possible that you gave you motivation through some big events and suddenly gained a great sense of strength. You are determined to achieve something with more courage and inspire your greater potential. These are all versions of life that you have the opportunity to experience, so there is no speed and distance.

Q: What is the "highest version of yourself" in your mind?

Tang Ning: I think people have the greatest potential. It is like a pyramid with a vertex, which can be the perfection of Buddhism. Different qualities of love, unity and self-sufficiency extend downward from the vertex of the pyramid. For example, some people have made in-depth exploration in the quality of patience, some people are more mature in wisdom, and some people have other qualities and beauty. We are all exploring a possibility from top to bottom through our unique life journey.

Then, you have failed to live up to your highest potential, which represents two meanings. The first layer means that you have lived to the most mature level in the aspect or road with your unique characteristics. For example, Mother Teresa lived the highest version of the quality of "unconditional love". Kazuo inamori, for example, has reached the extreme in its business philosophy.

The second layer means that you didn't live to the ultimate 100 point from top to bottom, but returned to the top of the pyramid from bottom to top. At this time, you didn't live out your highest potential from unconditional love, not from the level of wisdom like Buddha, but you were at that highest vertex, just like the characteristics of every small spray converge to this vertex. Your expansion of your own quality is infinite. It is entirely possible for you to expand to the level of Mother Teresa in the quality of "unconditional love", and it is entirely possible for you to expand to the level of kazuo inamori in the aspect of "business intelligence", but our minds think that we are limited and it is difficult to achieve it at the same time in our lifetime journey.

I never set limits for myself. For me, multiple roads can be carried out at the same time. So no matter what kind of quality you have set at the moment, you try to polish the quality you have given from the perspective of output, so that it will become more and more refined and mature. This is what I am doing now.

Try to show a better version of yourself.

Q: What qualities do you value relatively?

Tang Ning: Because I didn't have patience in the past, it took me a long time to cultivate patience. Later, unconditional love was a very attractive topic for me, and I spent a long time exploring it. Can it really be unconditional love? Can you really put aside money and income and do things from the purest heart? My current state is that I can see my intentions more and more clearly and try my best to really consider the overall interests in every idea. This is the principle I follow in doing things. This is a process, that is, the process of cognition, correction, cognition and correction.

Q: More English means more, so is it important for you to make everything better?

But in fact, you don't have a better self. As long as you are here all the time, you are a perfect self, which is our inner essence. So this is a paradox. On the one hand, we always want to make ourselves better, but we forget that we are perfect. So we should consider these two aspects at the same time.

We say that the essence of life is a process of regression. We are a small wave in the ocean. No matter how we stir and evolve, we should not forget that every small wave flower contains the characteristics of the ocean. The salty taste, temperature and water quality of the ocean are all in the waves. So at this level, the higher essence is that there is no better self. Nothing is better than perfect, nothing is better than yourself.

The wealth philosophy of the first three days inspires us:

Besides money, there is a lot of wealth.

Rich. ? (Abundant funds)

Full of energy. ? (Full of energy)

Full of joy. ? (the joy of abundance)

A sense of existence. ? (the existence of abundance)

Love is abundant. ? (rich love)

Rich interpersonal relationships. ? (Rich relationships)

Enrich your soul. ? (Rich soul)

These are all manifestations of wealth. When you only focus on money, you will miss other wealth.

In the next five days, the lecture class of wisdom leaders became more noticeable. The aftertaste is endless.

After eight days and eight nights of immersion study,

I see real wisdom in her.

The content is rich and varied, and I will write about the learning gains in detail another day.

Zhan: A talented woman in philosophy, a life wisdom tutor of CUHK. Founder of "Beautiful Group", "Moore University", "Beautiful Living Method" and other platforms, and founder of "Protecting the Earth".

In recent years, she has launched a social welfare project "Protect the Earth" that affects millions of people. And founded the beautiful lifestyle platform "Beautiful Living Method". Her latest venture was valued at 400 million yuan in the first round, and received strategic investment from China's famous angel investor and chairman of Meitu Xiu Xiu, Mr. Cai Wensheng.

In the field of life wisdom, she founded Moore University, the first Internet life growth university in China, and introduced and hosted hundreds of tutor courses at home and abroad, which has accompanied the life growth of millions of people so far. Her own teaching and sharing has also inspired many people who are eager to explore and grow.

It is such a legendary woman that let more than 200 of us return home with full loads. She lives according to the way she taught her.

I can't describe her wisdom.

I can't wait to share her wisdom with everyone I know.

I shared it with my friends and actually received a thank-you red envelope of 520.

Want to know the wisdom secret of Teacher Tang Ning? Scan the picture and see the wisdom of the ceremony she prepared for you without reservation. I hope it helps you.

I was especially lucky to visit Moore's office at headquarters.

Located on the 50th floor of Fortune Plaza, the most expensive, beautiful and energy-saving place in Guangzhou.

A magical learning journey.

Accidentally won the champion of group impromptu speech

Make a guest appearance as a humorous and anonymous host.

A series of realized gifts.

Thank you, Downing. I love Moore, and I love you and myself more.

Read other people's stories to grow up. Our task is to share at least 20 lessons in 8 days and 8 nights for public welfare. Partners in need can come to me. You can also make an appointment to share it with your community. Enlighten more people and discover their own wisdom. We're on the move.

I set myself a small goal: to share the 100 game and benefit tens of thousands of people. ? Come on, let's finish early.

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