1, afraid to show my true self, for fear of being really disappointed.
Everyone is too familiar with that group of people in high school. Many of them are old friends who grew up together. When I went to college, I didn't know each other, and I didn't know what kind of person I was, so I didn't dare to show my true self to others. Instead, they put on thick coats and wrapped themselves up.
University is too strange for us. Without the people we are familiar with, without the scenery we are familiar with, everything is brand new. For this reason, many students will become timid and do everything carefully for fear of offending others.
Recalling how happy we were in high school, we were so free and easy, because all the people and things are familiar to us, so we can live so freely.
When I arrived at the university, I was cautious when I got along with people because I didn't know each other well. I'm afraid that if one day I accidentally annoy others. In order to avoid this situation, I don't get along with others sincerely at all, and naturally I can't make sincere friends.
2, personality disagreement
There are no two identical snowflakes in the world. Everyone is unique in this world. There are not only differences in appearance, but also completely different personalities. The wisdom of two people getting along is the process of gradual integration of personalities.
Once you succeed, you will become good friends. Once you fail, you will dislike each other and can't get along at all. In the process of making friends, how many people miss each other because of their incompatible personalities? Actually, this is an excuse. Only by taking a step back and understanding each other can we write the most beautiful friendship poems.
3. don't share the same sky. We are different.
University is a new journey and the starting point of dreams. Our future needs our own struggle. As a result, we walked out of the comfortable dormitory and ran to the classroom, study room and library.
On the road to success, you have always been lonely, because when you set a goal and start to decide to work hard, the real good friend you thought before may not choose to go with you. Gradually, your conversations become less and less, and you gradually get used to being alone, eating alone and studying alone.
You finally understand that so many like-minded people in college are one person from beginning to end. The so-called friendship can't stand a little test in the end.