I have to say that many separated parents have spoiled their children to the point of being buried in the sky. In a parent-child program "Mom is Superman 3" produced by Hunan Satellite TV, actor Eva Huang took his son to participate in the latest program recording. Surprisingly, in this issue, it was Eva Huang's mother-in-law and Andy's grandmother who attracted everyone's attention.
In the program, Grandma Andy's tenth-grade pet baby has aroused widespread concern, and the extent to which the elderly spoil their grandchildren is staggering.
"Andy wants to ski in winter, so I built him a ski resort; Andy likes going out to play, so I will build a playground for him. I'll give him whatever he wants! "
The screen is full of love. This is the real "crazy devil who dotes on the sun".
Not only star families, but also ordinary people will spoil their grandchildren.
I remember watching a video online before. A father washed his face with his daughter's basin, and was scolded by his grandfather for soiling his baby granddaughter's basin. My face is not as clean as your granddaughter's feet.
When chatting with my mother the other day, she told a typical example of "separation of parents": the old couple in the neighborhood looked forward to the stars and the moon, and finally looked forward to the birth of their grandson after seven or eight years. As soon as the old couple were happy, they were ready to take out three houses to be demolished and leave them to their grandchildren. The son and daughter-in-law have nothing to say because they are at ease. Only the son will still whisper: Never been so close to me, the old man's heart is like a needle in the sea!
In real life, "step by step" is really nothing strange, but in our ordinary life, many old people have such performances:
I am frugal, but I am generous to my grandson.
The older generation was born in hardship, so they have always formed the habit of thrift. They don't want to buy anything themselves, and they are never willing to spend money even if their pensions are sufficient. However, since the old man has a grandson, it is different. He has never been stingy with shopping for his grandchildren, so he wants to give them the best things. Seeing the children happy, the old man felt it was worth it.
My cousin's parents-in-law are also thrifty people. They eat and buy food every day, and usually use water and electricity. However, when the cousin's son is born, it is different for the old man to buy things for his grandson. He always chooses the freshest fruit, and even if the imported price is more expensive, he never feels bad about money. Every time my cousin comes home and sees a label similar to a cherry box in the trash can, she spits in her heart: the old man really cares about his grandson, so expensive fruits are bought for children.
The reason why the old people "go their separate ways" has a lot to do with their growing age and becoming soft in front of their children's education; At the same time, my guilt about my children is applied to my grandson, and I love my grandson more and more.
As early as1980s, researchers from Toronto, Littlefield of York University and rushton of the University of Western Ontario investigated bereaved families, and found that grandma was the saddest, followed by grandma and grandpa, and grandpa was the least sad.
In 2009, Bishop of Lu Se University and others surveyed more than 200 American college students, and found that they had the most frequent interaction with their grandmothers and the least interaction with their grandfathers, and there was a similar phenomenon in intimacy.
That is to say, in these groups of experiments, the test results show that the order of the four generations of old people should be like this: grandma > grandma > grandpa > grandpa.
Senior chemists come to the conclusion that this is determined by the difference in the certainty of parents' identity.
What do you mean? In other words, the mother absolutely knows whether the child in her belly is her own, but the father is not: even if she is a wife, the child born may not be her own.
Grandma, on the other hand, is in the position of dual women. She can be sure that the mother of the child is her own, and the child can be decided by her daughter. In other words, grandma kissed you not because you are you, but because she is very sure that you are her own daughter.
Kissing me every other generation is deeply felt, because my grandparents are really good to me. Grandparents have three grandchildren. I am the youngest, but I am the only one who is partial to me. Anything delicious will be secretly left for me to eat. Every time I go home to visit the old man, I will quietly give me money.