I remember that Eason Chan had a very sad song "Ten Years": Ten years ago, I didn't know you, you didn't belong to me, and we were still the same, staying with a stranger and walking through the streets we gradually became familiar with. Ten years later, we are friends and we can still greet each other. It's just that we are docile and can't find any reason to hug, and lovers will inevitably become friends in the end. ......

Shi Yuan, a beautiful woman in Zhuhai, opened a TB shop selling clothes for couples. Kong Wei is a very romantic photographer. Both of them have romantic and comfortable personalities, and their love stories also tell us that these people who are bound by ideals can really be broken now, and poetry and distance are not far away from us.

They are perfect in appearance and are not bound by ideals. They have only known each other for a week. They are more like children who play house, they can play at any time, and they have a lot of waiting and dreams for life. Regarding love, others are the afterheat of love that will soon burn out, but they say they will never get tired of love.

They have been talking and laughing for ten years. When everyone is waiting for the sweet ending of the wonderful story, they finally tell us that all good things must end, even the best love will end.

It turns out that in Eason Chan's lyrics, they had an ending a long time ago, and lovers finally became friends.

However, breaking up is not a particularly sad thing for them, perhaps because both of them pay great attention to their feelings. In the face of contradictions in feelings, no one will compromise with each other, and beautiful dreams will eventually bow to their ideals.

Some people just look at each other, and they can die hand in hand. Some people have been in love for ten years, and finally they can only drift away. What caused lovers to finally become friends?

Falling in love is easy, but getting along is too difficult. In modern times, where people pay more attention to their feelings, it is very difficult to grow old hand in hand. I saw a news the other day that the reasons for divorce after 90 are incredible. A young couple who had just been married for less than half a year divorced. The reason for divorce is that women think men snore, which may not be the reason for earlier divorce. Even if snoring interferes with rest, they can choose to sleep in separate beds. Isn't the affection between two people better than snoring?

The feelings between modern people are becoming more and more fragile, not because love no longer exists, but because people are more and more self-centered and less understanding and accommodating. However, we must know that love does not exist in isolation, only love, then there must be hatred behind it, and only tolerance is not enough. Tolerance to the extreme is complete indifference. Love and tolerance exist at the same time, and they must be inseparable like twin brothers, so that love can last.

Kong Wei Poetry Garden used to love each other so much, but now they are separated, but they are talking so lightly. It must be the irreconcilable contradiction between two people. No one will bow to anyone and no one will compromise. They are all independent and self-centered. When no one is willing to make sacrifices for love, love will naturally come to an end. There is no doubt about it.

Once a friend did something that surprised me. She broke up with her boyfriend. The reason is that her boyfriend suddenly changed his mind after five years with her. Two people are too familiar with each other and have no passion. There are still various contradictions in life. These factors make a man suspicious when facing their feelings. At this time, with the intervention of new feelings, he will naturally choose to throw himself into the arms of new people.

My friend is angry, but it is obvious that she has paid a lot in this relationship. It is obvious that she loves him very much. However, in the face of secularity and temptation, she still failed to keep his heart. So the friend suddenly had hatred and anger, but the feeling of five years of emotion and hatred made her heart more entangled. Love and hate feel that sometimes it really makes a person pay the price, so friends finally choose to forgive.

However, a friend is not sincere and tolerant. She wants to experiment with what she heard about love, that is, to experiment.

My friend said that since every relationship is dead, since all new lovers will become old lovers, and since the last thing in love is accommodation and understanding, he and his new lover will face emotional crisis and trivial things in life sooner or later, so she will see if her accommodation with him will eventually crush the feelings between him and his new lover.

The result really surprised us. No matter what he thought of her, she gave her understanding and sympathy, and there was no more complaint or dissatisfaction. When she was wronged, she went for fun and ran alone. She kept telling herself not to get too emotional. This is just one of his experiments. Unexpectedly, only three months later, he lost interest in his new lover. The more he realized that she was the best, he broke up with her and came back for her.

She knows that I never dare to love again. If I want to love, I have to be tolerant and understanding, even perfect, and she has to be prepared for despair in the future, otherwise I will be torn to pieces again.

Now, she still looked at him in such fear, but there was no expectation. Deep down, she once pushed him away and got along like old friends for many years. But she tries her best to meet his requirements and often pretends to be indifferent when she is angry. However, he felt more and more sorry for her and could not live without her. After being drunk once, he said that she was the world.

It turns out that love really can't exist in isolation. Love needs too much accommodation and understanding, and sometimes it's even my fault that it helps each other. Perhaps it is because people are full of personality now, and no one will compromise or give in. Therefore, we will always fall in love with a person casually, and even separate a person casually.

It is precisely because love comes too easily, so at present, no one will die to live, and no one will be too sad. Because love will be staged from time to time, you don't know when you will fall in love with someone. Therefore, in the face of lost feelings, we will not be too sad, nor will we miss it too much.

Fortunately, everyone knows that fate can not be met, and life is also a process of parting from time to time. In the face of the natural disappearance of feelings, it is also a chic thing to admit that it was wonderful and wait more for the next relationship.

Cherish what you have, let go if you lose it, and live every moment well. This is the best attitude towards love.