Successful example of suffering in modern times 1
Sang Lan, a famous gymnast, is known as China? King's vault? . However, this was before1June 65438+July 2 1998, and it was in the fourth gymnasium of Goodwill Games in new york, USA. It was just a pre-competition training, just an accident. Sang Lan's unfinished handspring ended her gymnastics career, but she still? Famous? , even more? Famous? . Jean Sang Lan? Famous? Yes, it's her spirit, her perseverance and her eternal smile. 17 flower season, even the injured flowers are still beautiful.
Sang Lan's injuries were extremely serious: the fifth and seventh cervical vertebrae were open comminuted fractures, 75% of them were dislocated, the central nervous system was seriously damaged, and the consciousness of both hands and below the chest was lost. American nurses are very conscientious: from Nassau County Medical Center in Long Island to the most famous Monsenai Rehabilitation Center in downtown new york, medical experts have come up with the best treatment plan and used the best drugs.
The world is extremely concerned about Sang Lan: local American officials and ordinary people who heard about it came to visit in an endless stream, and flowers filled Sang Lan's ward; Ms. Xie Xiaohong, the guardian entrusted by the Chinese Gymnastics Association, waited day and night, holding Sang Lan's hand in the most painful time; The people of the motherland have devoted endless affection and care, and1200 million distant blessings have crossed the ocean.
But the best performer is Sang Lan: she hasn't shed a tear since she woke up; From the moment she faced the public's eyes again, there was always a bright smile on her face. 17-year-old girl, 17-year-old innocent smile, conquered the United States, conquered China and conquered the world. 10 months later, Sang Lan, whose injury was basically stable, finally returned to the motherland and continued to receive rehabilitation treatment at the China Rehabilitation Research Center.
This is a longer and more arduous process.
Sang Lan, hold on. She endured great pain and actively cooperated with the medical staff. Complications such as urinary and respiratory tract infections, pressure ulcers and scoliosis that may be caused by paraplegia have been effectively controlled and corrected. Postural hypotension has been relieved, joints have maintained good mobility, muscle strength has begun to recover, and the wheelchair has been able to swing far by itself. Sang Lan's self-care ability has been greatly improved. She can put on clothes, socks and shoes independently, eat, wash her face, brush her teeth and take a shower. She is learning English, can operate the computer and can complete the transition from wheelchair to bed.
Of course, what she actually accomplished was the transformation of roles. She is no longer a gymnast, nor even a paraplegic disabled person in general. She is a smiling girl 19 years old. She is a young life, full of longing and hope for a new life like ordinary people.
She is now a student of the middle school affiliated to Tsinghua University, the most famous institution in China. The flower buds of mathematics, Chinese and English are eagerly receiving the irrigation of human cultural knowledge; She has the kindness of human nature, and all kinds of rehabilitation equipment and daily necessities donated to her by all walks of life are donated to Beijing Pok Oi Hospital and disabled patients who are more in need and more difficult.
As a humanitarian charity ambassador, she traveled all over the motherland with her disabled body, lit the torch of the 5th China Paralympic Games in Shanghai, and raised money for mentally retarded children with Mr. Schwarzenegger in Shenzhen. Her behavior infected people. A prisoner wrote to her, and a young man who didn't do his duty visited her at her bed. She answered and received her warmly.
19 years old, Sang Lan's beautiful life picture has just begun. She once fell and is now getting up.
A famous writer in China asked: How far is forever? Sang Lan, 19 years old, answered with her life experience: life is eternal, and smile is eternal.
Successful examples of suffering Modern Chapter 2
Unfortunately, he was born? Brittle bone disease? Patients commonly known as glass dolls will break their ribs even if they sneeze. When he was born, every bone was given by the pressure of birth? Heartbeat? Yes, my limbs are limp and drooping, like a broken doll. The nurses just gave him a nickname? Tutankhamun? The name of an Egyptian Pharaoh mummy.
He won't sit up until he is three or four years old. But his bone density is too low to support the pressure brought by his upright body. In addition, his leg bone is severely and permanently twisted, and he will never walk in this life. More unfortunately, he reached the growth limit when his height was about 1 m. At school age, he can't leave the wheelchair for a moment. Only at night can he lie on the floor of the bedroom and relax his tired body. As he grew older, his fractures became more and more frequent. This forced him to often drop out of school and rest at home. For him, physical pain is not so uncomfortable, but the most unbearable thing is mental loneliness. He tasted loneliness when he was a child.
On Halloween in the fourth grade of primary school, all the children put on ferocious masks and went out to play pranks and had fun. He lay on the floor and rolled around happily. Just when he got carried away, his left leg suddenly got stuck between the door frame and the corner, and then he heard a crunchy sound? Click? The sound, followed by heartbreaking pain, made him miserable. Because of his special circumstances, once an accidental fracture occurs, it is necessary to strictly ensure that the body is fixed at the incident site, and then stay still for six weeks, so that the bone can heal slowly and automatically. Eating, drinking and sleeping in the meantime can only be solved on the spot. He's going crazy: why? What did I do wrong?
? Son, do you want to treat this kind of suffering as a gift or a burden of life? Mother looked at him quietly, but her eyes were firm and powerful.
This sentence gave him great shock and encouragement, and suddenly opened a window in his dark life. The inspiration of wisdom filled his heart like bright sunshine, making him no longer angry and complaining.
Later his mother told him: You should remember that pain is inevitable for everyone, and it will come to everyone sooner or later, but our attitude towards pain is dispensable. ? From then on, he learned never to give up, and the despair and helplessness that often haunted him had long since vanished.
In high school, the school's radio and television station became an important place for him to play his imagination. During his four years in high school, he made various radio programs, including talk shows, dating programs and current affairs reviews. He also produced a school TV series, which attracted many fans when it was broadcast on the cable TV station in the town. Later, this series was selected to participate in the Columbia University Video Works Competition and won the silver prize for drama works. During high school, he also served as the vice president of the student union. As a member of the All-American Boys Association, he had the honor to talk with President Clinton at the White House. Finally, President Clinton invited his family to the Presidential Box in the United Center Gymnasium to attend the Democratic National Convention that evening. He graduated from the University of Chicago with the belief of never giving up. At the graduation ceremony, when his name rang, the crowded auditorium suddenly sounded endless cheers. On the rostrum, sitting in a wheelchair, he held high his diploma and was extremely excited.
His life experience is admirable. From high school to university, many companies, schools and churches invited him to give a speech, but at that time he didn't take it as a formal job. One day, his father said to him: Son, if you want to change the world, you can try to be a professional speaker. Many people like to hear your story. They all admire you. Can you be like Anthony? Robbins became such a person who could influence the whole world. ? These words suddenly ignited his belief. Indeed, can't being a professional speaker also help you achieve the goal of changing others? So, he began to speak everywhere and practice his expressive ability.
In order to cope with the thorny issues raised in the speech, he went back to school to study psychotherapy and neurolinguistics courses, and obtained professional certificates; Later, I applied for a doctor's degree in clinical hypnosis at the university. At the same time, he also set up a private psychotherapy clinic to learn and practice. Later, he became a psychotherapist and an internationally renowned speaker. He visited 47 states in the United States and toured the world, inspiring thousands of listeners with his own struggle experience. Inspire master Anthony? Former US President Bill Robbins? Clinton was moved by his passion for life.
Is he Sean from America? Stephenson. His book, Rejecting a Failed Life, sells well all over the world.
Yes, people will always encounter setbacks, diseases and pains in life, but as long as we have a strong will and perseverance, we can get out of the predicament, create a colorful life and live our truest self.
Successful examples of suffering Modern Chapter 3
In life, there are some things that we can't change, such as humble family background, ugly appearance and painful experience. These are cocoons in our life, but there are some things that everyone can choose, such as self-esteem, self-confidence, perseverance and courage. They are the swords of life that help us break through the cocoon of fate and become butterflies. Perhaps we will always envy those who have inadvertently walked a long way on the ideal road, but after all, they are a lucky few. One day, we will understand that for most people, those who bear the hardships of life step by step and stick to the end are the ones who go farthest and best.
A child is ugly and stutters, and his mother is in deep pain because of his illness, resulting in his left face partially paralyzed, his mouth deformed and his ear deaf: a child who has not been alive for several years will have to endure the torture of unfortunate fate. How will he live in the future? But what can she do except love her children more?
However, perhaps this child is destined to be a strong man in life. He matures faster than ordinary children. He silently endured the ridicule and sarcastic words and eyes of other children. He feels inferior, but he is more determined to work hard. While other children were killing time with toys, he was immersed in reading. Most of the books he read are adult books, but he read them with relish because he learned to be strong and never give up.
In order to correct his stuttering, he imitated a famous ancient speaker and spoke with a pebble in his mouth. Looking at the son whose lips and tongue were worn out by stones, the mother said with tears in distress: Don't practice, my mother will accompany you all my life. Sensible, he wiped his tears for his mother and said, mom, the book says that every beautiful butterfly breaks through the cocoon that binds it. If someone cuts the cocoon, the butterfly from cocoon to cocoon will not be beautiful. I want to be a beautiful butterfly.
Later, he was able to speak fluently. Because of his diligence and kindness, when he graduated from middle school, he not only achieved excellent results, but also gained good popularity. No one around will laugh at him, only admire and respect him. At this time, his mother found him a good job, and she hoped that her son would be as smooth as possible. But he also said to his mother: Mom, I want to be a beautiful butterfly.
1993 10 He took part in the election. His opponent used TV advertisements to exaggerate his facial defects with ulterior motives, and then wrote such an advertisement: Do you want to be yours? However, this extremely immoral and insulting attack aroused the anger and condemnation of most voters. When his growing experience became known, he won great sympathy and respect. He said: I want to lead the country and people to become a beautiful butterfly's campaign slogan, so that he can be elected with high votes and win again in the election of 1997. People affectionately call him a butterfly. He was the first Canadian jean chretien who was re-elected twice and crossed the century.