1. Trust others and make yourself trustworthy.
If we take care of our roommates all day, won't everyone feel tired? Trusting others means that everyone should respect and trust his roommate and believe that he can be his friend. Imagine if a person thinks that his roommate may have done something bad or hurt himself on the first day of school, can he still be friends with others? The answer is self-evident.
2. Respect each other's privacy
When it comes to privacy, it is usually a secret that people don't want to reveal. If you keep asking people what they don't want to say, they will get bored. On the basis of a good relationship, you can relax the restrictions appropriately, but everyone will have a bottom line. Some things are almost enough. Maybe someone else will tell you tomorrow.
Concentrate on
Several people in the dormitory may come from different places, with different backgrounds, customs, thoughts and living habits. At this time, for some people, it is necessary to learn to look at the problem from each other's perspective and respect each other's choices. The whole dormitory will plan to go out for dinner together, but there will always be an excuse not to go. Maybe he really has something to do. Maybe he thinks eating out is a waste of money.
4. Be polite at first impression.
Politeness will enhance your personal image and make others feel that you are worthy of being close. Make sure that your first impression is polite (usually in an unfamiliar environment), and be polite in the future. Politeness refers not only to your language, but also to your personal behavior.
Keep clean and tidy.
Try to be a clean and tidy person in daily life, to say the least, don't be too sloppy. Dormitory disorder not only affects the living environment and physical and mental health, but also has a certain impact on mood. Don't let health problems become the fuse. You may think it's normal for college dormitories to be untidy. Maybe like-minded people can really get along well, but the dormitory always needs cleaning, so in order to avoid unnecessary disputes, you need to pay attention to health problems.
6. Organize some dormitory activities
Eating together and going out to play together can directly promote the friendship between dormitory members, and such activities can slowly cultivate the feelings among dormitory members.
7. Understand your roommate's hobbies and learn to communicate with others. After all, college students have to spend four years with their roommates. It is necessary for them to communicate well if they want to handle interpersonal relationships well. So it is a good choice to start with roommates' hobbies. Having the same topic and being able to talk together is an important step to maintain the roommate relationship.
8. Open your heart, learn to treat others sincerely and care about your roommates. For roommates who have just entered university life, especially those facing the dormitory, it is the only way to get rid of the living environment of the only child. Learning to change from being cared for to actively caring for others is also one of the means to improve dormitory relations. Caring for roommates is reflected in subtle aspects, such as taking back clothes hung by roommates in the rain, or giving them a cup of hot water when they are sick. For another example, make your own demands in a way that others can tolerate and accept.