In college, your roommate is the person who has been with you for the longest time, and basically meets every day, which will inevitably lead to conflicts. Some people like to go to bed quietly and early, while others like to stay up late, so it is inevitable that they will have opinions on each other. For example, I'm quiet, and I don't like staying up late at ordinary times. Then some roommates will stay up late and make a lot of noise. I have a light sleep, so it is inevitable that there will be quarrels at this time. Sometimes, it is understandable if something really needs to stay up so late, but it is very uncomfortable if you do this every day.
University is different from high school. Everyone in high school basically comes from the same place, but there are still some concepts in living habits that are not very different. In college, they come from various provinces, so in life, there will be some friction because of different concepts and habits, especially between roommates. I remember that one of our roommates is from the northeast and has a straightforward personality. She always says what she has, but the other roommate cares. Sometimes the roommate in the northeast will directly say some of her views in front of her, which may be particularly direct. Then another roommate couldn't stand it, and they quarreled.
In fact, everyone gets along through mutual understanding, so we should think from each other's point of view. For example, set a time to turn off the lights and go to bed at night. If it is too late, keep your voice down and understand those who like to go to bed early. If you have any opinion about each other at ordinary times, you can say it euphemistically. Don't be too direct. Some people may not be able to stand it. Getting along depends on mutual understanding and tolerance, especially between roommates. Everyone's meeting is fate. Instead of spending every day in contradictions, it is better to understand more and spend it happily.
I hope everyone can understand more, communicate more with roommates, reduce conflicts and get along more happily.