2. children. If there are children, this is also one of the important reasons for letting fewer people go to the party. As parents, we must spend more time with our children. It doesn't matter if you give up one party or attend two parties during the festival. But if you go every other day, it will be bad, and the children will never see it.
Although parents will be happy to spend more time with their children and grandchildren, don't forget that they are also parents and should be happy to spend more time with their children during holidays.
Partners don't like parties. If a boyfriend or husband hates parties, this is a better reason to refuse them. In fact, most women want a partner who doesn't like parties and doesn't drink too much. Learn to appreciate your partner and try to find a compromise.
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In universities, students and cadres are often surrounded by dinner. Because of their community work, these people have to eat. At the dinner table, business associations develop great events and communicate feelings. It is difficult to meet sincere friends in this kind of work-based dinner table communication. I don't deny that knowing like-minded people at dinner will make friends, but please don't forget that being friends is because of like-mindedness, not because of eating.
Because of the contact in community affairs, even if we don't have dinner, we will become good friends in practical work because of the same preferences and goals. The community itself is a learning and growth platform for college students' hobbies, and it should play its due role. Enhancing the contact between societies and emotional communication among members can be achieved through collective activities, such as public welfare practice, quality development, public welfare lectures, etc. Dinner is not the only way.
In economics, "economic utility" is often mentioned. In interpersonal communication, we also introduce a kind of "useful social communication", that is, spend the least time and energy to achieve the most useful interpersonal harmony. In this way, it is very utilitarian. However, if social communication adheres to this principle, it will have unexpected effects on its own interpersonal communication.
I won't spend energy on some unworthy people, I will give up those who can't achieve interpersonal harmony with great energy. This is very beneficial to others and myself.
In the final analysis, I still hope that college students can understand their real purpose of attending dinner, and must not blindly socialize for the sake of socializing. It is difficult to find sincere friends in "gathering and socializing". When dealing with people, it is best to be "more sincere and less routine".