1. Learn only what the school teaches, and don't be conceited. This type of students just think that they don't need to study after class, such as not learning knowledge and software useful to college students.
2. Procrastination is too strong. This is the general psychology of college students. When something happens, I always want to put it off. They don't have to deal with things as a last resort, or want to learn a skill, but they still play games every day, go their own way, think about learning tomorrow, and finally give up. These are all manifestations of procrastination, and I think the main reason why a college student becomes ordinary is procrastination, not just playing games.
3. Not confident. Students who are not confident in themselves, envy confident classmates, complain about the beauty of others, and complain about their own ordinary. Self-distrust can lead to inferiority and inferiority.
4. Longing for love. Ordinary people will yearn for a sweet love. Seeing how sweet other couples are in pairs on campus, they will yearn for such a life and fantasize about their love life. But many people have no courage to pursue love.
5. Not sociable and afraid of socializing. Most people are cheerful in front of familiar people, stiff in front of strangers, and autistic in unfamiliar environments.
College life is really colorful for those who are confident, beautiful and talented, but it is just a relatively free cage for those who are not confident, ordinary-looking and introverted. What we can do is to accept the truest self, recognize ourselves and restrain ourselves.