First of all, we should restore the parent-child relationship with our children. When many parents come to us with their children, the relationship has deteriorated greatly. When children are tired of school, parents' anxiety will show up. They often scold, deny and criticize their children, so their relationship is often destroyed, so the first thing we should do is to repair their relationship. Because children's anxiety, nervousness, fear and even some inferiority will affect their weariness of learning, it is necessary to have a relationship with children and enter their hearts, which will help solve the problem of weariness of learning.

The second step is to analyze the possible weariness with our children. Our children often complain to us that they can't learn, or that their teachers don't teach well, or that they are bullied by their classmates.

In fact, these are superficial excuses. The real problem comes from children's weak psychological quality and weak tolerance for setbacks. Therefore, when children are tired of learning, it is a good opportunity to help them experience and grow. For example, if a child says he can't learn, the usual practice is not to learn. In fact, you should accompany your child, because if he can't learn, he will have to learn again, cultivate the quality of persistence and willpower, and cultivate the spirit of perseverance. When we complain about teachers' poor teaching, we can strengthen children's subjective initiative, reduce dependence on teachers and turn bad things into good things. Or children complain that they are bullied by their classmates and hate going to school. At this time, we should accompany our children to develop an effective interpersonal skill, either to bear and accept grievances or to learn to resist, explain and clarify effectively.

In the face of children who are tired of learning, we can't completely deny them. We should help them find the reasons, and at the same time find the shining aspects in them, giving them hope and confidence. Through comprehensive efforts, most children who are tired of learning will be effectively improved. Of course, weariness of learning can sometimes be caused by various psychological diseases, such as depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder and so on. If our children have other mental and psychological problems besides being tired of learning, parents must also lead their children to find psychologists and psychological teachers for diagnosis and evaluation in time, so as not to delay their children.

In short, it is understandable that some children are tired of learning when they grow up. It is important to help children get out of the state of being tired of learning. Children will benefit a lot from it and their hearts will be stronger. Therefore, we must not be blindly pessimistic, but also use a positive attitude to guide children.