1, poor communication with family.
2 1 year-old college students are gradually developing into mature adults, so it is natural to do things according to their own ideas. When his parents try to oppose him, he will show a strong sense of discomfort, so the rebellion of college students is not an unfounded thing.
2. Stubborn personality
Many rebellious college students are stubborn in thought and character. They realize that there is only one way to solve the problem, and they will prove it again and again through this method. These students always repeat their past mistakes frequently, and their personalities will become restless, so their rebellious behavior will escalate rapidly.
3. This idea is crucial.
College students are in adolescence, and their critical thinking has developed greatly. Thinking mode and thinking angle are developing in the direction of reverse thinking, multi-directional thinking and divergent thinking. It is the development of college students' thinking and the formation of reverse thinking that provides psychological basis and possibility for reverse psychology.
4, eager to get recognition from others.
2 1 year-old college students will be more sensitive and care about other people's comments, which is exactly what they have changed since they grew up, hoping to make something big or change, otherwise they will have rebellious psychology.
Countermeasures of rebellious psychology
1, listen carefully to the child's voice.
When a child tells you something he is interested in, be careful not to listen as if it is necessary. After listening patiently, fully understand their views, analyze the feelings and needs behind the children, and fully consider them, and then exchange opinions and opinions with the children in a friendly and peaceful tone.
In the communication with children, we should be honest, sincere and sincere, which often shows mutual understanding and trust between people. Special attention should be paid to respecting and protecting children's privacy.
2. Create a harmonious family environment
A harmonious and happy family atmosphere is conducive to the healthy growth of children's body and mind. Every family should strive to create such a family atmosphere, respect their children's ideas and communicate with them sincerely.
Avoid repeatedly and mechanically criticizing responsible children, and the more direct communication, the better; Family members should care about each other and give their children reasonable financial support and nutrition; The more perfect the family function, the weaker the rebellious psychology of college students.