1, know why you are decadent and confused, know what you need most and what you want, and grasp these two points to plan your goals. Everyone can't live without what they don't need. First, find out what they need and set a goal for their needs.
2. Know what you like. As mentioned above, find what you need. This step is to find what you like. Everyone can't have something they like. First, find what they like and plan their struggle. For example, if you want to be a boss in the future, you should learn how to achieve the goals and methods of being a boss.
3. Planning your goals After finding what you like to drink, you should start planning your goals now, how to plan and how to struggle to achieve them. First of all, we should proceed from personal reality. Everyone's life background is different, and the road suitable for everyone is different. First, find your own way and stick to your own ideas to succeed.
A person's decadent life depends on his study environment and himself. You know, university control is much looser than high school. You don't have to wear school uniforms or register to go in and out, so your whole life becomes free. No one can force you to go to class. Sometimes I just want to go and don't want to go. There is no later repair, and there is no atmosphere of fighting together under the lamp. People from universities come from all corners of the country, and the communication between all kinds of people has increased, which has increased the probability of "those who are close to Mexico are black, and those who are close to Mexico are black". There are many extracurricular activities in college life, and many mass organizations have been organized to stimulate their interest and reduce their attention to professional courses. There are more opportunities for men and women to communicate, and falling in love has become a sight.
College life is really a kaleidoscope, which generally embodies freedom and activity, and provides a relatively large space for college students' study and life. However, once we don't know enough and handle it well, it will become decadent soil. Many people can't resist the influence of this environment, and the result is to follow suit, lose themselves and degenerate themselves. Many people are full of mysterious fantasies and strong yearning for the university before entering the university, and they are full of ardent hopes for the future. But after going to college, the new ideas brought by the original fantasy were destroyed by Wan Li's lifestyle, which was different from that in high school. At this time, we feel that the university is not a paradise, but a hell. Many people are depressed, and many people choose bad behaviors such as surfing the Internet and skipping classes to relieve their stress. After a long time, bad behavior becomes a habit, and people begin to degenerate and decadent. The original goal has been forgotten, and the whole person is like flying into a wall in a black hole. Thinking of the original goal, my heart can't help but blur. My belief is not as firm as it was at the beginning, and I am a little at a loss.
To get rid of the decadent state, we must be clear and firm in our ideals, rationally analyze the freedom of the university, accept all the good atmosphere, eliminate the bad atmosphere, and be an ideal and positive college student. It can be said that the future and destiny are tightly held in our own hands.