Two people fall in love and get married for the same purpose, in order to live better than before.

If we suffer more grievances for being together, it is better to separate.

Wen Wen and her boyfriend fell in love for three years. When they were together, Wen Wen served her boyfriend.

I take care of my diet, even what clothes I wear to work will be carefully arranged.

After a long time, my boyfriend has adapted to this way of getting along. He only asks when he wants to find something, and never does it himself.

Wenwen also changed from caring for him because he loved him to having to take care of him. Sometimes lukewarm care is not in place, and you have to be scolded.

Taking care of the person you like is a very happy thing, but when this kind of thing becomes an obligation, Wen Wen no longer feels happy.

Even when her boyfriend confessed and proposed, Wenwen agreed impulsively, and later she wanted to go back on her word.

Wenwen herself began to doubt whether she and her boyfriend were really suitable.

In fact, at this point, two people can only say that it is inappropriate.

2. Being together is too tiring

Pang Bo and his girlfriend have been together for more than half a year, and they are going to talk about marriage.

My girlfriend is rich and beautiful, and she has four houses at home. Although the appearance is not amazing, but the temperament is good, the figure is graceful, very suitable.

Pang Bo is just a college student from the county seat. I have an ordinary job after graduation, and my income is only enough for my own expenses.

But fate made him meet his girlfriend at a party.

Pang Bo is really average in other aspects, but he is sincere and resilient enough. Although he was rejected twice, he never backed down.

He used practical actions to show that he is not the kind of man who falls in love for fun.

It took three months to impress his girlfriend and promised him a chance to fall in love.

After falling in love, everything is dominated by girlfriends. Just like this discussion about marriage, Pang Bo also fully consulted his girlfriend.

My girlfriend only said one request, that is, at least 300 thousand bride price money, both of which are indispensable.

This is their wedding custom there, and she feels ashamed if it is lower than this price.

Pang Bo simply can't afford that much money, and he doesn't want his parents to spend their life savings just to get married.

To this end, he and his girlfriend discussed many times without results, and the family also discussed it. I really can't stand it.

Pang Bo works hard under pressure every day, just to save enough money early, and he forgets everything about falling in love.

Until one day, a friend went to Pang Bo for dinner. He looked at Pang Bo unhappily. After asking the reason, he asked Pang Bo, "Aren't you tired?"

Pang Bo had never thought about this question before, and when he was suddenly asked, he was a little speechless.

It's really tiring to think about his life during this period, but he also thinks it's all worthwhile for his girlfriend.

In love, this behavior of meeting each other's needs through one's own efforts is a manifestation of love, but we should also do what we can.

Sometimes I am tired, but I have no chance to change the status quo.

Now my girlfriend needs 300 thousand bride price. Will she buy a house and let her children go to a prestigious school in the future? Her demands must be increasing. After all, that is her standard of living.

However, if you don't have the ability to provide each other with that kind of living conditions, will you be happy together?

You will only drag yourself down and constantly meet the most basic requirements of the other party, but you can't give her happiness.