In fact, it is an ordinary peasant family in Ansai District, Yan 'an City, Shaanxi Province. It has five children, four of whom are from Tsinghua Peking University, so their parents were awarded 300,000 yuan by the local authorities.
A couple of Wu and four of their five children in Ansai District of Yan 'an City were admitted to Tsinghua University. Wu Yunfeng, the eldest son, was admitted to Tsinghua University Institute of Software to study for a doctorate. The second son, Greeny, was admitted to Peking University to study for a master's degree in electronic communication engineering.
Wu Tianfeng, the youngest son, was sent to the Department of Precision Instruments in Tsinghua University for a master's degree. The eldest daughter, Wu Haiyan, was admitted to Tsinghua University, China to study for a doctorate in language and literature.
After graduating from An Medical College, Wu Gaiyan, the youngest daughter, worked in Shaanxi Maternal and Child Health Hospital with a good salary, but she also resigned during the postgraduate entrance examination on 20 17 and went to Tsinghua Peking University to reunite with her brother and sister.
This inspirational story of "Four Tsinghua (Peking University) Five Talents" can't help sighing that the parents who raised such excellent children must be intellectuals!
In fact, the parents of these five children are ordinary farmers. Because he was born in the countryside and was born in poverty, his father Wu Zhibao dropped out of school and went home to farm after only one year in junior high school, while his mother Hu never went to school for a day.
The educational level is not high. How do they do what most knowledge families find difficult to do?
Refuse to spoil, let the children experience the hardships of their parents.
When it comes to children's education, parents Wu Zhibao said that these children are very sensible from childhood and have never beaten or scolded their children because of their studies.
"My wife and I have no culture. We educate our children in some indigenous and stupid ways.
If you don't study hard at school, take it home and work with us in the fields, so that they can experience the suffering of their uneducated parents. "
In fact, this kind of education method is really not stupid at all. Through practical experience, it is more effective to let children get in touch with the truest side of their parents and make them realize that life is not easy.
The real enrichment of children is not material satisfaction, but keeping children's psychology from being knocked down by poverty.
Nowadays, parents always want to give their children the best conditions, which is actually harmful to their children. For some children, the richer the material, the easier it is to develop laziness and lack of progress.
Giving children the right education is to let them know the hardships and guide them to learn to work hard. This is the deepest gift for children.
Firmly believe in supporting children's horizons with patterns.
When they were young, the husband and wife tasted the bitter fruit of illiteracy and decided to let their children learn culture and go to college. "No matter how hard and tired you are, you should send your children to college and change your destiny through knowledge." This is Wu Zhibao's persistent insistence on the education of his children.
In order to provide for five children to go to school, Ms. Wu has to go to the streets to sell apples after planting apples, and it takes more than an hour to walk from home to the county seat. In order to save more tuition, Ms. Wu asked herself to complete three round-trip apple sales every day, and she was busier every year. There is almost no one in the county who doesn't know "the aunt who sells apples with a burden".
Wu's father also said, "No matter how difficult it is, we have to borrow money everywhere even if we have no money. We try not to let our children know. The purpose is to let them go to school with peace of mind. "
"Educational reform should start with family education" puts forward the hierarchy theory of parents, which has five layers:
The first level: willing to spend money for children.
Many parents at this level are working hard outside, and their children are left to the elderly at home. They have no time to accompany their children at all, and they only provide living expenses every month.
Level 2: Willing to spend time for children.
Parents at this level will spend time with their children, such as playing games, doing sports and having some parent-child interaction with their children.
The third level: start thinking about the goal of education.
Parents at this level will think in the process of accompanying their children, what kind of person I want to cultivate their children, what kind of qualities I want to cultivate their children, and how to give full play to their specialties. ...
The fourth level: improve and perfect yourself in order to educate children.
Parents at this level will study together with their children, make progress together, and strive to be good role models for their children. In order to better cultivate children and make the way of family education more reasonable, they will continue to learn educational methods, educational skills, children's mental health and so on.
By constantly improving and perfecting themselves, children will take fewer detours in their growth.
The fifth level: do your best to support and encourage children to be the best themselves and set a good example.
As parents, the highest state is to always give children warmth and support, encourage children to play their subjective initiative, and parents themselves will be the strongest backing for their children.
The Wu family's parents belong to the fifth grade. While chanting "study hard" to their children, they don't feel sorry for themselves and waste their lives. On the contrary, they try their best to make a hard life a "good life". They pass on this positive quality to their children, and let them become hardworking and self-reliant talents. ?