First, she hopes that you can speak more tactfully, master speaking skills and be careful in your words and deeds, which will help you make friends in the future.
Secondly, it is very important to learn how to deal with people in college. We should learn different ways to get along with all kinds of people, and learn appropriate and likable words and deeds.
Third, a serious attitude determines many things. She wants you to take everything about yourself more seriously and not perfunctory, because everything about yourself is paving the way for your future. Forming serious good habits will help you achieve a better future.
What your tutor said is to the point. She hopes that you will not only make academic achievements in the future, but also become a leader in social life and live a smoother life. So she will have requirements and expectations for you.
Your adoption is very important to me. Hope to adopt, thank you!