Contemporary college students' views on marriage and love tend to be open. Twenty years ago, the phenomenon of campus love was rare. Nowadays, college students' falling in love has become an indispensable part of college life. Accompanied by this, contemporary college students' views on marriage and love are becoming more and more open.
A junior at Peking University said that the university campus is the epitome of social life, and it cannot exist in isolation from the social environment. College students' attitude towards love is more influenced by social culture. Romantic movies, rosy Valentine's Day, classic plots of idol dramas, and emotional topics on the Internet all make young hearts thump. What's more, college students are adults, have considerable judgment and can be responsible for their actions.
Among the dozens of students interviewed by the reporter, although most people are opposed to getting married at school, few people are opposed to falling in love. Some students think that love is normal, but now some college students' love motivation is often not out of love itself, but to make up for inner emptiness and loneliness, or to follow the crowd. Also, in order to show my charm, I associate with several students of the opposite sex at the same time, and I am not even sure who I am in love with.
A survey of 12 universities by teachers of Hebei University shows that nearly 30% of students think that college students' love is "not eternal, I hope once", and it is "a love view of mutual desire and no need to condemn". More than half of the respondents do not object to the phenomenon of "extramarital affairs" in society, among which 20% understand it, and 19% think that others have no right to interfere. And many students are tolerant of college students' cohabitation. Not long ago, a survey conducted in 26 universities across the country showed that more than 60% of college students agreed to premarital sex, and the proportion of consent increased by 25% compared with 10 years ago.
In fact, in many private houses around colleges and universities, one after another "college students' villages" have been formed. Many couples get married in pairs and live a husband-and-wife life of daily necessities. This kind of behavior has been abandoned in traditional morality, and many schools have stopped it through administrative and educational means, but the effect is not great. An old professor described it this way: the students are advancing step by step and the school is losing ground.
Gu Feng, a professor at Hebei University, believes that love and marriage are relatively realistic and common problems in college. Contemporary college students' views on marriage and love are more and more open, self-centered and casual, showing the diversity of values and forms of marriage and love. However, due to the immaturity of their own moral rationality, the ambiguity of the main role and the influence of the objective social environment, they have shown various contradictions. It is necessary for colleges and universities to strengthen the education and guidance of college students' concept of love and help them establish a correct and civilized concept of love.