From birth to the end of life, rural college students are faced with the ups and downs of hard life at every stage, especially the first generation of college students who have appeared in farming families for generations. How hard are they?

Junior high school students rely entirely on consciousness. Parents are useless except eating and drinking by themselves, tutoring their lessons and answering questions. Including choosing arts and sciences in high school and filling in volunteers after the college entrance examination are different from those in urban families. This is crossing the river by feeling the stones, and no one can help.

Finally, I went to college, lacking in materials and confused in spirit. I don't know how to plan my career, because I have never been exposed to this level and realm, and I can't create things and choices out of thin air. Moreover, if my family has been farming for generations, the people and environment around me are rural areas and farmers, and their horizons and knowledge are not as good as those of your first generation of college students. Finding a job must be a big hurdle. If you choose tiankeng major like civil engineering again, the next days will be even more sad.

Finally, I found a job in the 996 system, and my parents will ask for financial compensation with the mentality of investors. Many girls from the countryside have suffered a lot, either asking for gifts from themselves or asking for money to borrow money, so that you can supplement your brothers and sisters by giving and paying.

If you choose a spouse to get married, it will be even more difficult. Restricted by rural status, your parents have no connections, and their circles basically don't match you, so they are easily fooled by the matchmaker. If you unfortunately choose to work in the field, it is difficult to find a partner without any resources.

The most terrible thing is that your parents' thinking habits affect your life's character and choices. Cowardice and inferiority will accompany you, and accompany you all your life. Most college students from rural areas can't handle interpersonal relationships and can't let go of things. They know little about the world and have a narrow vision. They stuck to an acre of land and broke into the wilderness.

The rise of a family requires the efforts of at least three generations, and the first generation of college students are doomed to bear more misfortune and tolerance.

Unless you are particularly excellent, it is difficult for the first generation of college students in our family to get ahead, because no one gives him advice. Graduation depends on your own groping. If you make a mistake, you have to pay the time cost. From twenties to thirties, the time cost is only a few years. After 30 years old, you will find yourself burdened with a lot of burdens, and you will no longer be allowed to try at will.