After going to college, I found that everyone has a common phenomenon. They make a wide range of friends, but stop at a shallow level. Few people really make friends. They don't make reckless and fanatical efforts like junior high school and senior high school. Everyone is tired of making friends, unable to get into each other's hearts, and too lazy to spend time trying to run a friendship. I found that even my roommates and classmates' inner grievances and unwillingness would only complain to friends who had been in junior high school and high school. Obviously, we meet every day and live in the same room, but we still feel strange. Obviously, everyone in the dormitory is here, but I still feel deeply lonely. After going to college, some people will want to fall in love very much. These people don't want to fall in love because of following the trend or envy, but want to have someone who belongs to you to accompany and listen. Adults have learned to be polite and flattering, and they are full of "plastic feeling". In college, you must have enough grades to make people look forward to, or you must have excellent communication skills. After all, college life is an entry-level society. The city you choose is also very important. Students from other provinces will feel even more out of place when they arrive at schools with a large proportion of candidates in the province. Other classmates, girlfriends and even family members may be only two or three hours' drive from school. Many classmates and friends are in the same school and class, and those from other provinces will be even more uncomfortable to integrate.

I'm just talking about my experience and feelings. If it's my upcoming college entrance examination or my younger brothers and sisters in junior high school, don't worry. After all, I always experience loneliness, and the situation varies from person to person, not necessarily like me.