When I was in middle school, I looked forward to the university every day, envied the sisterhood of Lin Xiao, Nan Xiang and Tang, and dreamed that one day I could make a group of good friends and girlfriends in the university and have a sweet love.
However, people in the university are very busy, and few people are willing to make serious friends with you.
I still remember the joy when I first entered the university campus. I walked along the tree-lined path on campus with dreams and joy, and everything was so beautiful.
I don't know that friendship also needs to be maintained. I always thought I could have each other in my heart. Therefore, the word best friend is strange to me, and best friend is also very luxurious to me.
I am looking forward to making a good friend in college, and then rising from a good friend to a best friend.
Freshman, we need to study by ourselves in the morning and evening, which is the most contact and conversation with classmates. When we entered the classroom, we found a seat that we were satisfied with, and chatted enthusiastically with the students around us, and the students joined the chat team enthusiastically. The scene is in a trance. Back in middle school, it always gives people the illusion that we have been friends for many years.
During that time, I found a partner to chat with. We go to the canteen together, take our bags together, go to class together, sit at the same table together, share our joys and sorrows, share all kinds of interesting things that happen around us, and talk about things or people around us that we don't like.
I thought I made good friends. However, this is all my own illusion. People who have close contact with me every day call me deskmate or companion in front of others.
She will also share her joys and sorrows with me, and she will also share with me the things between her and her best friend, but I will never become a frequent visitor, just stay at the same table or as a companion.
I will feel a little lost when I start to hear her name. When I returned to the dormitory, I found that she was not the only one, and so was my roommate. My role in their lives is roommate.
In the dormitory, four people moved out all kinds of cosmetics, pieced them together and learned makeup together. Let's think of the dormitory as slow shaking, dancing, singing and laughing. Sitting on the ground together, munching snacks.
We really live a little like good sisters, but between us and good sisters, there is less of a heart-to-heart process.
People around you in college can accompany you to eat, play and go crazy, but they can't accompany you out of depression.
They have no patience to listen to you, no time to enlighten you, and no energy to be your listener.
It is often said that there are not many friends, only the essence. They have their own girlfriends and belong to their spiritual harbor. I found it in middle school, so I naturally don't need it in college.
Every pair of girlfriends know each other, run in with each other, understand each other and tolerate each other.
These efforts to make a bosom friend may have been used up in middle school, but there is no energy in college, and there is no need to spend time looking for a bosom friend.
What we have to do is to learn to grow up and stop relying so much on our friends.
One day, we will all be independent.
Plan your future quietly and lonely, take yourself as the center and don't deviate from the track. Please accept her arrival, but she didn't come. Please continue your journey and work hard!