Look up at the moon.

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Some time ago, my friend Zuo Yuan suddenly cried to me, saying that she was humiliated by her husband's family.

The cause of the incident was that a relative of her husband's family worked as a personnel officer in a state-owned enterprise, which coincided with the company's recruitment. She wanted to be assigned to several leisure and decent positions.

However, Zuo Yuan only has a bachelor's degree in correspondence, and people don't admit it. If the correspondence is not good, the requirements can be lowered, and the high school diploma is also reluctant.

But the problem is that Zuo Yuan didn't go to high school at all. What's more tragic is that when she was in middle school, she dropped out of school early to work because of her willfulness, and even didn't get a secondary school diploma.

You must have a junior high school diploma. I asked weakly.

Yes, but now which unit needs a junior high school graduate, secondary school students are disdainful!

My mother-in-law said that I was a liar and tricked her son into getting married with a fake undergraduate diploma!

That relative of his family directly satirized me face to face, and it was misleading that several illiterate people dared to teach students in interest classes!

Even my husband lamented that I missed such a rare opportunity. Although he didn't say anything else, their attitude made me want to die!

I also want to have a better education, but when I am young and ignorant, I don't think it will be so important. Later, when I worked, I felt less important. Who knew it was so important at the critical moment?

ZuoYuan sobbed on the phone.

When I was young, I felt that a diploma was not that important. Experienced some roads, met some things, only to find that:

What you think is useless can actually play a vital role at a certain point.

02

This incident deeply touched and worried me.

At the beginning, I was the first girl in our small block to go to high school, in a small place with serious patriarchal thinking.

Many good people advised my parents to let me go to technical secondary school directly, because I could come out to work early and reduce the burden on my family.

It was my father who insisted that I continue reading. He said that because his family was poor, he could not go to college, and he didn't want his children to do the same.

Unfortunately, I was not an inspirational child, and my grades were average all the way, and then I entered a very ordinary school.

So when I just graduated from school with an internship salary of several hundred dollars, many people began to jump out and ridicule me face to face:

What do you think is the use of going to college? I haven't earned as much as a primary school graduate!

After studying for so many years, you wasted so much money on your parents and finally got so little salary?

If I had known this, I would have come out to work early to reduce the burden on my family, and your parents would not have worked so hard as they do now. ...

Once, I also questioned myself in the confusion of work and the ridicule around me. I think I knew my ability was so limited. Maybe I really should study less for a few years and come out to work early.

After all, a popular saying among graduates at that time was:

Education is not important, what matters is your ability to engage in social work.

When more than ten years later, those who questioned me are still living on the salary earned by overtime and complaining about the years, I have long lost those childish ideas.

In fact, those students who study better than me and are still working hard are really moving in a better direction, which makes me very envious and yearning.

Life is a long marathon, and who is fast and who is slow in the process really can't represent the final outcome.

Education does not mean ability, but it does not mean that people with education are incapable.

03

Bear used to be my classmate. I was forced to transfer to our school because I failed in the second college entrance examination.

At first, he was still hanging out with his classmates, but I don't know when he became a maverick and was no longer in the team of skipping classes.

On the way to the library and study room, he will always carry a thick book and headphones.

A year later, Bear left. I heard that he was admitted to the university he always wanted to go to.

One day after a long time, a photo of him standing on the street of Times Square in new york appeared on Renren. The news area suddenly exploded.

Many male students praised him for being awesome below, and asked him how he was getting along with greasy now, and whether he could take his brothers.

I turned to the back, only to find a message that I was almost in tears:

They all see your strength, but they don't know the pain you have experienced.

I'm so happy for you. Although I took many detours, I persisted after all. Congratulations on your dream coming true!

Yes, after many detours, I still insisted on going to my dream place, and how many thorns, rain, dew and frost did I have to go through along the way?

You have to work many times harder than ordinary people to make up for those roads you have taken carelessly.

Only by stepping on one springboard after another can you finally reach the top you want.

04

Han Han, the director of the movie "Never See You Again" and "Riding the Wind and Waves", used to be many idols worshipped by the post-80s generation.

I dropped out of school and gave up the college entrance examination First prize in the new concept composition contest, publishing Triple Gate and One Degree below zero. ...

He made us feel that the college entrance examination was a meaningless thing at that time, just having one specialty.

However, after a lapse of 18 years, such a young genius who has aroused heated discussion in society has publicly admitted a fact:

Dropping out of school is failure

"Dropping out of school is a very failed thing, which shows that I am incompetent in a challenge and can only quit. Not worth learning. What is worth learning is always learning the words themselves. The word' learning', regardless of location or environment, is always something to be done. I heard someone say, Han Han, I dropped out of school like you. I don't understand. What can I learn from what I don't do well? Why not learn from what I did well? "

Compared with many people, Han Han is already a successful person. From writing to music to movies, he went very smoothly.

But a few years later, this outstanding and uninhibited teenager is still annoyed. This is "the place where I didn't do well."

Now many famous enterprises openly admit the fact that they only recruit 985 and 2 1 1 college graduates, because, first of all, they are not only qualified in intelligence, but also relatively strong in academic ability and endurance.

Most of us are intellectually qualified, but our learning ability and endurance are not necessarily enough.

If you want to get to the starting line with those who are successful enough, you can only make up for the lack of learning ability and endurance.

Those who missed the opportunity to enter the university for various reasons, but succeeded, paid unimaginable sweat and efforts.

05

There is a joke in the poisoned chicken soup.

Child: Mom, is a college degree really important? Mom: A college degree is like money. It's not important to have it.

Are those people who tell you that going to college is not important really serious?

It is clear that they did it, and then tell you lightly that it doesn't matter.

Or I haven't eaten it, and then I said, hey, the grape I haven't eaten is sour!

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Author: Du Yue (ID: Du Yue 58), the first micro-journal of women's growth in China. If there are poems hidden in your heart, time will never overcome beauty, and knowledge will make women more beautiful. Welcome to pay attention, every night at 9: 00, be there or be square. Please contact Du Yue (ID: Du Yue 58) for authorization.

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