Yuan Zhanbiao's starting point in life is very low. He comes from a poor mountainous area and has poor family conditions. Since his father's death, he has become even more stretched. However, he did not bow to fate. But at every crossroads in life, I resolutely seized the opportunity and chose the lifestyle I wanted, so I turned over against the wind. At the same time, he made unimaginable efforts and struggles for his choice, which he deserved.
1. Suffering has become the wealth of his life, inspiring him to keep working hard.
For Yuan Zhanbiao, his life is full of too many difficulties and challenges, but it is this pile of suffering that has set a higher milestone for him. He studied well when he was a child, and his senior high school entrance examination results can be admitted to the local key high school. But in order to help his mother share the housework and shoulder the heavy responsibility of raising his younger brother, he chose to support his family with his own hands and ability, so he gave up his studies and chose when his family needed him most, because "big brother is like a father"!
During the seven-year struggle from 15 to 22 years old, he did all kinds of work, mostly manual work, and sometimes he risked his life to work at high altitude in order to earn more money. But seeing that his mother didn't work so hard and his brother was admitted to the university with his own help, he was very pleased and felt that his efforts had paid off. Although living a hard life, I have gained more through my own efforts.
2, a good attitude makes him regain his dream, don't forget your active attitude and go forward bravely.
When the conditions at home are getting better and better, and my brother can pursue his studies and dreams, he begins to think for himself. He is also eager to return to the classroom and want to make greater progress, instead of sticking to the small world of "moving bricks" on the construction site forever. Finally, with the help of former teachers and classmates, he returned to school smoothly.
Although he began to study in the third grade, he never wavered in his belief. But get up early and go to bed late every day and study hard. For him, compared with the hardships on the construction site, the hardships in learning are really nothing. Because the suffering of the latter is what he dreams of, and it is his hope for a better goal and direction in life. So he cherished his study life at school and finally lived up to expectations. Although he neglected his study time for seven years, he was admitted to a famous university with excellent results through hard work.
3. Know how to let go, make a choice at the right time, and bear the consequences for your choice.
Yuan Zhanbiao's success lies in his understanding of making timely choices at every crossroads in life and his ability to bear the consequences for his choices. In order to have a good result, he worked hard, not thinking too much about the pros and cons, but doing his best.
When his family needed him, he took on the responsibility of supporting his family. When he found his inner dream, he bravely pursued his goal, regardless of other people's ideas and prejudices. Instead, I did what I should do, proved my ability with practical actions, and let others see my strength.
At the same time, "inspirational brother" is always grateful to be taken care of by good people around him. He will not feel that good people take care of themselves for granted, nor will he make people feel that "I am poor", but will use practical actions to create the life I want.
So he succeeded and lived the life he wanted. Therefore, choice and effort are very important. Sometimes suffering can become a great asset in our life. The key depends on what kind of mentality you face.