As soon as I heard this theory, my head got bigger. Whether men or women, if they can't live their own lives and get the life they want, they want to prove that I am not a pure loser through others, and someone will love me.
Many people expect too much from their lovers. I'm sad that you want to make me happy. I'm depressed that you want to play with me. I'm wronged that you want to help me vent. You have to bear my anger. The feeling is that you regard your lover as a Doraemon, and there is always a way to deal with it by putting all kinds of weapons on the cat's stomach.
Unfortunately, men are human. No matter how capable and powerful a man is, he needs gentle and considerate comfort when he is tired, sad and tired.
Many girls, especially literary girls, don't want bags, beautiful clothes and luxury cars. They want single-minded and pure love. What is more troublesome is that they think there will always be such a person in the world, and this kind of love is unique to me.
Every time a girl tells me this, my heart screams, but I can't say anything. Life belongs to others. You can't tell others what they don't know.
Until these girls hit the south wall, they will understand that the difference between life and books, between reality and dreams, no one is indispensable.
A happy marriage is not something that only one person can give. When we are a complete circle, we can see the world freely, enjoy the beautiful scenery in this world and meet various life forms. On the way, we will always meet people with similar interests. If appropriate, everyone will go all the way to the ends of the earth.
When I was in college, there was a girl in my class, Niu Niu, who was not outstanding in appearance, but had the tender skin and slim figure that Sichuan girls were proud of. Her family is very good and her parents are of high quality. Niu Niu always feels like a spring breeze.
Niu Niu's mind is not on dressing up, and she never misses buying clothes. After graduating from a depressed high school, like bandits, we feel fresh when we see anything. Speaking of dressing up, we see beautiful clothes and our eyes burn like thieves. We have to move some so-called cost-effective things to the dormitory every day. Niu Niu just smiled and patiently answered the same questions that every girl asked in front of the mirror.
Niu Niu's mind is very simple. She goes to class on time every day and attends self-study on time. Before the exam, the whole dormitory was frantically copying Niu Niu's notes.
Niu Niu hasn't done the first three. Fortunately, there is one last item. Even taking part in club activities is because of Arlene.
Well, Alin, Niu Niu's mind is full of Alin except studying in college.
Alin's appearance is not surprising, and his heart is higher than the sky. She has no temperament or talent. At the end of each semester, Niu Niu is rarely seen in the dormitory. Ask her why, the study room helps Alin review, and sometimes she crams for exams, and Niu Niu will accompany Alin to the study room all night.
At the beginning, Alin was able to catch up with Niu Niu, which was beyond everyone's expectation, so that he was going to graduate, and some boys regretted not catching up with Niu Niu earlier.
Even though many people hold hoes, they are ready to change sedan chairs at any time when Niu Niu's flowers are too thin for Alin's soil. However, after four years in college, Niu Niu only focused on Alin and looked elsewhere.
Later, at the class reunion after graduation, we would ridicule someone for being unkind and always stare at Niu Niu with a wicked cat heart. Niu Niu is always surprised. How is that possible?
Of course, in the whole university stage, Niu Niu only has eyes for Alin. When she eats delicious food, she will think of Alin. When she sees fun, she will think of Alin.
Even clothes, when the season changes, Niu Niu, who never buys anything for herself, will think about buying some for Alin. It can be said that Alin is about Niu Niu from beginning to end.
By the end of the month, everyone who has experienced the university stage knows that this time is the most green and yellow. At this time, the boys either stayed in the dormitory by drinking water and sleeping more to resist the tragedy of life without living expenses on the card, or the old demon of Montenegro who had been hiding for a month finally came out of the hole and looked for food and relatives and friends everywhere.
Only Alin is the most nutritious. He never worries about playing games and his brothers eating and drinking, because there are Niu Niu.
When he first entered the university, Alin came to the provincial capital from his hometown in the countryside. It's dark, thin and earthy. This is really not a personal attack. This is such a humble Alin. With the spirit of picking up girls first, coupled with an ignorant and fearless attitude, he actually won Niu Niu. After four years in college, Alin was raised by Niu Niu. I don't know how good it is
We all secretly pinch, Alin this boy, met Niu Niu, is simply a great luck, fell into a happy nest.
Just when we thought they would love each other for life and build a happy family together, the news came that they broke up after graduation.
It turned out that when she graduated from work, Alin was always difficult to find a job because her resume was not excellent. Although Niu Niu tried her best to help him review his lessons during the exam, Alin failed several subjects because she was usually too lazy.
Niu Niu's parents understand very well. They think their daughter likes it, so they help her. They found Alin a job as a middle school teacher in the provincial capital. Who knows that Alin's own mind is quite heavy, and she has been trying to be a spokesperson for a big man. She is just trying to find a job in her hometown and go back.
It didn't take long for Alin to work, but it's harder to change jobs this year than to find a job, and Niu Niu's parents are also very helpless. Alin's temper is getting weirder every day.
As a result, Niu Niu, who had been obedient to Alin for four years, resolutely broke up. Alin was dumbfounded, but this time, no matter how Alin begged for redemption, Niu Niu never looked back.
Later, I met Alin several times or chatted with my classmates online. Between the lines, it is easy to feel Alin's overflowing regret. It is said that Alin is not easy now. He married a local woman, a bitch, and the economy is not very good. When I met him at a class reunion a few years later, although I carefully cleaned him up, I still saw a gaunt face with a backward hairline, a bulging stomach and a greasy face, and everyone was gone.
It turns out that men with light bones don't like it, so men will do it, and when they do, they will leave the woman who is good to you. Excellent and reasonable people know that no one in this world will always be nice to you without asking for anything in return. Happiness belongs to people who know how to cherish and be grateful, just like Niu Niu's later boyfriend and now husband.
I think that every time Niu Niu forgives Alin's behavior, it's a secret. Disappointment with Alin has been accumulated for many years, and it is finally unbearable to be so broken. Every time Alin succeeds, she pushes Niuniu out.
After leaving Alin, Niu Niu soon got a new boyfriend. Sure enough, excellent girls always have suitors.
When Niu Niu brought her new boyfriend, Sen, to meet us, everyone whispered in their hearts that this is an evolved Alin, but with brighter eyes, more outstanding temperament and a more upright figure.
We all thought Niuniu was still thinking about Alin. When she went to check out, Niu Niu said, "Don't get me wrong, Alin is really my past tense. Don't mention what happened. I really like this type of man. Actually, it's not Arlene, Jason or anyone else. When I am in contact with him, I will treat him wholeheartedly. I understand that love is not impulsive, but long-lasting. "
Sen is going to Guangzhou to continue his graduate studies and apply for transfer to Guangzhou branch. Niu Niu packed her luggage without hesitation and followed. With her high professional level, Niu Niu found a job in Guangzhou again without any difficulty.
We seldom meet each other. In the future, we will all be like mice driven into the bellows by work and family. I am busy with my career prospects and family management every day, and I have less and less contact. We heard that Niu Niu gave birth to twins, Sen went to the United States to be a visiting scholar, and Niu Niu also brought a pair of children.
Occasionally, in the photos sent by Niu Niu, I can see that Niu Niu is very satisfied and happy. A pair of children are very smart and lovely. My husband is looking at his wife and children with a coquettish smile and looking at the clean and tidy big yard.
Niu Niu said that when she got there, she participated in many community activities. Because of her good cooking, many people in China who stayed in the United States loved her food and suggested paying for the meal. She opened a private kitchen, which was actually trained by Niu Niu, because she was afraid that her children and husband would not be used to western food.
I think a woman like Niu Niu will be happy when she gets married, but it's a pity that some men are as blind as a bat and don't know how to cherish it, while men with feelings in their hearts will naturally have a pair of eyes and take them home like finding a pearl in the crowd.
Those girls who are always afraid that men are unreliable, do you feel empty when you say this? How much you don't love yourself? You don't think you are worthy of men's love. You should use your body as the last chip.
Girls like Niu Niu don't care if you have a car, a house and money. Without so many rules and restrictions, the chances of meeting lovers are naturally much greater.
And some girls have too many ideological constraints. They always talk about finding someone who feels right. Every time I hear this, I feel completely discredited. What is right? If you don't accept it, get along with it and love it wholeheartedly, how do you know if it is your lover?
Girls, let go of your's reserve and fantasy and love. People are not keen on teenagers.
Love the wrong scum, and you won't know what is best for you until you have experienced it.
Go ahead and find the man who likes you. The future can never be predicted. To love boldly is life.