However, there are many cases about these gifted teenagers that hurt Zhong Yong. He became famous at a young age and eventually disappeared from the public.
For their children, I believe that every pair of parents have given all their love. Similarly, any pair of parents have high expectations for their children and hope that their children will become talents in the future.
But in Hunan, there is such a teenager, 13 years old admitted to the university, 17 years old admitted to Xiangtan University, 17 years old admitted to the Chinese Academy of Sciences. However, life is not always smooth. Not long after he studied in the Chinese Academy of Sciences, he was dismissed by the Chinese Academy of Sciences. His mother also scolded: "If only he were dead."
Genius boy Wei Yongkang
Wei Yongkang was born in an ordinary family in Hunan. Because my father was discharged from the army due to injury, the burden of the family was all on my mother. His mother has high expectations for him, hoping that he will grow up as soon as possible and reduce the burden on his family.
For families with ordinary conditions, the only way to change their current fate is to study hard. Because her mother regretted that she didn't finish her studies, she attached great importance to education and trained Wei Yongkang when she was very young.
In study, Wei Yongkang failed to meet his mother's instruction. Under her early education, he still knows more than others. When other children were still babbling, he had already known more than 1000 words, while when others were still in kindergarten, he had already started primary school.
After Wei Yongkang entered the primary school stage, it took only four years to finish what others could have completed in six years. At the age of eight, he entered a key middle school with excellent results. Until 13 years old, he was directly recommended by the teacher to take the college entrance examination.
That year, he was admitted to the Physics Department of Xiangtan University. After he entered school, his grades were still excellent, and he entered the Chinese Academy of Sciences after graduating from college. I thought his excellence would continue. Unexpectedly, it was these three years' study that made Wei Yongkang fall directly from the altar and was dissuaded by the Chinese Academy of Sciences.
The reason for falling off the altar
There is no doubt about Wei Yongkang's talent in learning, but it seems that genius also has some shortcomings in some aspects.
When I was a child, Wei Yongkang always lived under the protection of her mother. In order to enable Wei Yongkang to concentrate on his studies, his mother took care of him in every possible way, basically reaching the point of being naked. Because of her mother's meticulous care in life, Wei Yongkang was unable to take care of herself when she grew up.
In addition to taking care of her life, her mother doesn't allow others to disturb Wei Yongkang's study, and often directly refuses students who come to visit him for Wei Yongkang. At first, Wei Yongkang was much younger than his classmates. Coupled with his mother's obstruction, he has less communication with his classmates. When I grow up, I am basically used to thinking alone, lacking teamwork and social skills.
It is precisely because of her mother's education method that after Wei Yongkang was admitted to the Chinese Academy of Sciences, all kinds of disadvantages were exposed. His self-care ability is extremely poor, and what is more serious is that it affects his study.
This also led the Chinese Academy of Sciences to be very disappointed with this talented boy, and finally gave up. After returning to China, Wei Yongkang was devastated, often doing nothing and even indulging in games. Seeing such Wei Yongkang, my mother was so disappointed that she even said hurtful words like "I'd rather he died".
natural lifespan
Wei Yongkang was indifferent to her mother's abuse. Seeing such Wei Yongkang, her mother felt that she was in great communication. Under the advice of outsiders and her own reflection, she finally realized her mistake.
In order to change Wei Yongkang's state, she began to invite her classmates from Wei Yongkang to play and teach Wei Yongkang to clean up the housework.
With her patient help, Wei Yongkang slowly changed, and he began to bring tea and water to his father who was ill in bed.
Besides his mother's help, Wei Yongkang's godmother also helped him a lot. She invited Wei Yongkang to work in Huarong County People's Congress, hoping that he could learn some social methods here.
Wei Yongkang lived up to Dada's expectations. Slowly, he began to become a normal person, washing and cooking by himself, taking the initiative to report his trip, and even buying food knew that it was cheap and affordable.
In 2008, Wei Yongkang got married and had children. He fell from the altar, walked out of depravity and became an ordinary man. In 2009, I was admitted to graduate school by my own efforts, and then I worked in a company.
Although Wei Yongkang is ordinary now, he is happier than before.
Write to the end
There are many Wei Yongkang in China, mainly because of education. Parents' high expectations of their children often make them only pay attention to the cultivation of their children's talents and ignore their survival skills in life.
For children, parents should be calm, don't pursue their children's success one by one, find areas suitable for their development, and focus on training. But at the same time, children's basic living ability can not be ignored.
We don't need talents with high marks and low abilities, but comprehensive talents with his own thoughts and morals, that is, we should learn to face all the problems in life while paying attention to learning.