I am a girl, too. I think it is normal for girls to have such an idea, probably because they are confused about the future. I am also a senior, and occasionally I lose my temper with my boyfriend because I am looking for a job. It may also be a matter of personal mentality. Everyone will have different feelings after losing their jobs. You can tell her that you can take the time before entering your next job as an adaptation period. There are many things you can do during the adaptation period, such as traveling, gathering with friends and family, or summing up the shortcomings of your last job. If you want to live a good life during the adjustment period, don't complain to others about how you lost your job and then how difficult it is to find a job. It is very important to comfort your girlfriend and help her realistically. You said that raising her in the future would hurt her. If you said raising her, she might wonder if you are really capable. If I were you, I might be more worried about the future, because I am not very confident in my boyfriend. . for reference only