I thought they were heated by slow fire. Later, like high school, I would share some topics of concern and recent events with them in the dormitory, but I often got no response and my enthusiasm faded. I talk less and less in the dormitory, and I don't like to pick topics between them. However, I want to say that I also have more time to do more things: student union cadres, scholarships, volunteer social practice, various competitions, professional certificates and so on.
I am also very open-minded now. What I want to say is that the older you get, the more ideas you have in your mind, and the fewer people will meet the same topic. Don't waste your time on meaningless people or things, and don't forget your innovative spirit. Calm down and do something really worthwhile, and you will find a different world! At that time, someone and something will not affect you.
I found several laws in the dormitory:
1. Don't be too nice to anyone and alienate others. It's best to keep the same attitude as everyone else.
2. If you don't like a person, avoid contact with her, such as going out ten minutes in advance, coming back to the dormitory late at night, and going straight to bed after washing.
3. If you can meet a basin friend who shares your views, cherish it. If not, it's normal. Just be a passer-by who gets along day and night.
4. If you have some good resources (materials and documents), just send them to the group, and the rest like to watch them, so they can do what they can.
For the person you don't like, his emotions have nothing to do with himself. The best way to protect yourself is indifference, insensitivity and no doubt.
These are some experiences that I have summed up in my college year. I hope I can help you. I put down a lot myself, so it doesn't matter ~