People who are desperately gregarious are the most pitiful.
Some people say that you won't be so hard to get along with others. However, is it really not difficult to force yourself to integrate? In college, many students are always alone, feeling lonely, envious of those who have many friends, and afraid of being said to be unsociable, so they force themselves to blend in and want to become very popular.
Living in groups, there are always a group of people around you, and only you are lonely. Over time, I feel that I am really unpopular, so I try to get along with others. When you go to dinner with your roommate and see that the other person doesn't like the food, you will deliberately order the same as the other person; Even if the other person says something against his will, he will still nod and agree with his point of view. What he obviously doesn't like is to eat what he doesn't like and go to places he doesn't like, but as long as others get used to it, he will give up his real thoughts and practices, and he will try to get along with others for fear of being left out. People who try their best to get along with others are really pitiful.
What destroys a person is actually blindly gregarious.
Someone once said that during my four years in college, what I regret most is not that I didn't study hard, but that I dare not be myself. Friends in the dormitory love to play games, so they should call him every team battle and give him a nice name: "Brothers are United in their interests and break the gold". In this way, a person who doesn't like playing games slowly disintegrates his will in order not to show his maverick, for the so-called "honor" and "war" and for the momentum of working together.