They are also very helpless at this time. It's not that they have to check your suitcase and respect you, but that's the rule. They are just people driven by rules. We should not blindly think that they are weak and reasonable after seeing something. Of course, this is not to say that this woman is unreasonable, but it is possible that sometimes both of them are helpless and have no right to choose. You may not need to check your suitcase when you enter the factory, but you will definitely be asked to check it when you leave. This is normal, as long as you have some work experience, it is actually understandable.
It's just that this woman may be in a bad mood at that moment, and then she will be depressed. He was also angry when the doorman asked to check the suitcase, but the doorman was also very helpless, so sometimes we have to consider things from the other side's point of view, and maybe the other side doesn't want to do it. If both sides insist on not thinking about each other at all and only thinking from their own standpoint, then this problem is likely to last for a long time.
Sometimes when you do things, you can actually make a little concession. As a girl, how about letting the doorman open the box for inspection? Maybe if there are personal things in it, you can tell each other, and then I'll take my things out, which is more private. Then, as long as I get proper communication, I believe both parties can understand and will not take the initiative to offend each other's privacy, but only if the communication is good. Once you make a hullabaloo about, you feel that the other person is rude. When you are bent on looking for something, it's really hard.