In fact, this is related to inferiority complex. In fact, many of my classmates and many families are not rich, but the children of those rich families are not as strong about this phenomenon as those who are not rich at home. In addition, this kind of comparison can cover up your inner inferiority and satisfy your vanity, but while enjoying the envious eyes projected by your classmates, you forget your parents who worked hard for this little money at home. Some people think that this may be a reaction of adolescence. Many people are waiting for them to really grow up, but can this expectation come true? Instead of pinning our hopes on the accident, we should start from the perspective of education.

First, the rich people in the family have their own money and don't need to compare.

Unless you meet someone richer than yourself in the class, you must compete with yourself, so this rich constantly chauffeured may really be able to compete. As for other time periods, I really don't compare with others and dress normally. These clothes are normal in their own eyes, but in front of ordinary people or some classmates who don't have much money at home, this is a provocation. While enjoying themselves, they also inspire a kind of comparison psychology, and they must surpass that person anyway.

Second, students who are not well-off at home become comparisons because of inferiority.

Inferiority makes children in such families think that people around them look down on him because he has no money, but they don't want to express their inner inferiority. As a result, if they want to hide their inner inferiority, it is estimated that they are particularly arrogant. Anyway, their superficial personality and inferiority are very different, and comparison is a good way to cover up their inner inferiority. Besides, by comparison, they think they can gain the respect of their classmates.

Third, practical education needs psychological counseling for these children.

Inferiority sometimes leads children to make mistakes, so we need to vent it through education, psychological counseling and other ways to improve children's inferiority complex, and this kind of education can not be the kind of written examination-oriented education, which will cause resentment. What we need here are some opinions and suggestions on applied psychology, and some psychological counseling for children with inferiority complex. I believe the effect will actually be very obvious. Don't hope that one day children will understand. This is indeed possible. Some things are naturally sensible, and some things are sensible after generations of pain. However, most of them are ignorant all their lives and even hate their parents. Therefore, active education is very important. This is Bian Xiao's point of view. Of course, many people think that this is not the case. This is also welcome to discuss.