College students go home in winter vacation and go back to their parents. In the first three days, the whole family is happy, and in the last three days, parents and children will blame each other. For parents, the New Year's Eve is approaching, and both at home and outside are very busy: cleaning, buying new year's goods, preparing for the New Year's Eve dinner, and inviting guests to pay New Year's greetings. The daily schedule is full, but as children, college students are obviously out of step with their parents: they have nothing to do, sleep and eat, and they don't sweep the floor, wash dishes or leave the room except playing mobile phones and computers. Some people say that there is a huge gap between parents' expectations of their children, which leads to the rejection of college students going home on holiday.

The author believes that college students can only find reasons from themselves when they are rejected by their parents, and they can't blame others at all.

First of all, a holiday doesn't mean relaxation. When college students go home on holiday, don't forget their identity while taking a proper rest. Learning is the fundamental task of students. Taking time out to read books and newspapers, even watching movies, participating in necessary social practice activities, or volunteering in nursing homes can not only increase your knowledge and exercise your talents, but also cultivate your ability to adapt to society and prepare for entering the society in the future. Only in this way can they have a meaningful and substantial winter vacation and be such an enterprising and enterprising college student.

Secondly, holidays do not mean indulgence. When college students go home on vacation, they should make a winter vacation plan and set themselves a "small goal", such as reading some famous books and writing some papers. Eating, drinking and having fun should not be the whole content of winter vacation. Now, many college students go home on vacation. They can't get up in the morning and don't sleep at night. The morning and evening are completely reversed. They didn't help when the broom fell down. Their bedroom is like a kennel, and they don't rush to do any housework. Even if you are from Tsinghua Peking University, which parent will like it? The performance of some college students on holiday at home makes parents seriously doubt that this is a family version of the campus lazy life picture! Even so, I don't know how much I will indulge in school! College students who don't make progress are doomed to get nothing after four years of college. They graduated empty-handed, and finally they had to go home and enjoy their old age. What media reported that the college students who wandered the streets after graduation were not lazy or idle for four years? College students go home on holiday, with clothes to reach for and food to eat. They have hands and feet, but they don't want to look after themselves. How can their parents not be disgusted?

But then again, college students are refused a holiday, and parents themselves are responsible. Parents' long-term arranged substitution virtually deprives children of many opportunities for hands-on exercise. Children can't do housework and can't tell wheat from leeks, salt from sugar, soy sauce from vinegar. Shouldn't parents reflect? Because parents always think that their children's main task is to study hard, getting into a good university is the first priority, and housework is their parents' business. The author believes that it is understandable that parents did not teach their children to take care of themselves before going to college. However, with the growth of children's age, parents should use holidays to teach their children to master the necessary life skills, let them learn to wash dishes, wash clothes, mop the floor, cook and cook, and cultivate their sound personality and habits of independent living.

Some busybodies summed up eight ways for college students not to be rejected during their holidays at home: "Leave their mobile phones, read books when they have nothing to do, keep smiling, go to bed early and get up early, do all the housework well, be on call, she comes in and out, she is angry and I kneel down." Although it is a joke, college students really can't treat it as a joke.