Stay calm: don't be too emotional or excited when you meet a hypocritical roommate. Keeping calm can help you deal with this situation better.
Observation: Try to observe roommates' behaviors and words, and understand their behavior patterns and motivations, so as to better cope with them.
Set boundaries: If you feel that you are involved in hypocritical behavior, learn to set personal boundaries and don't let yourself be affected.
Stay true: Although you may need to be careful, you can still be true to yourself. Don't change your attitude and behavior to cater to others.
Selective sharing: Don't share personal information too much, especially when it comes to sensitive topics. Share only what you are willing to share with them.
Looking for the same hobbies: Try to find the same hobbies as roommates, so as to establish contact in some positive aspects.
Maintain a harmonious atmosphere: try to maintain good communication and a harmonious atmosphere and avoid emotional quarrels.
Ask for support: If the hypocritical roommate behavior bothers you, you can ask other friends or counselors for support and advice.
Appropriate distance: If you find it difficult to get along with your fake roommate, you can keep an appropriate distance and reduce unnecessary interaction.
Pay attention to yourself: don't care too much about the hypocrisy of others, but pay more attention to your studies, interests and development.
The most important thing is to maintain your true peace and harmony. Although fake roommates may bring some challenges, you can keep a positive attitude and maintain a harmonious relationship through appropriate methods. If the situation becomes unbearable, you can consider communicating with relevant personnel (such as psychological counselors) to get more help and support.