How do college students manage themselves better? Rule 1: Save your strength and be ready at all times.
Self-confidence has nothing to do with a person's physical strength, and self-confidence has nothing to do with gender. Self-confidence is more reflected in one's inner strength and endurance. If you want to be confident, you must be able to persist. Only when you are ready, can you seize the opportunity and you will be calm; Otherwise, when the instant opportunity comes, you will not be able to seize it. This is the power of preparation, so you should always be prepared for your sacred goal. Sometimes failure is a good thing. However, many people fail when they fail. They didn't sum up the reasons for the failure and didn't try again.
Rule 2: Learn to be honest.
Dishonest people may show that they seem to have many friends, but there are few real friendships. Time will tell. Honesty depends on a person's long-term habits. Honesty is not a difficult thing. In the face of temptation, as long as you can persist, you will be honest. Everyone has it? Inertia On the other hand, long-term dishonesty will lead to the habit of dishonesty, which will ruin your future at a critical time. When you make a mistake, tell the truth. It is wise that the truth can solve things as soon as possible. If the problem is simplified, it will be solved, and you can do other things, which shows your wisdom. Honesty will reduce the inner pressure, make people focus on what they are good at, and the success rate of doing things will be greatly increased because of your honesty.
Rule 3: Managing Confidence and Frustration
Many times it is difficult for us to know whether we have potential or not. Only when we encounter difficulties and have to do something, do we begin to try, which is definitely a challenge to your willpower. If you are not confident at this time and don't believe you? Okay？ , you will collapse.
Many successful people often attribute their achievements to their setbacks. They think that without those setbacks, they might not succeed. People who learn from setbacks are smart people. Finding the seeds of success from setbacks and cultivating them hard is a good way to face setbacks. Setbacks make people mature, enrich their experiences, make people have the methods and creativity to solve problems, and make people stronger. Setbacks are also a kind of failure. Difficulties and opportunities are always linked, and opportunities always exist in difficulties, but many people lose a little confidence and courage in the face of difficulties and are unwilling to persist for a while, so opportunities pass by.
Rule 4: Manage growth.
Courage, self-confidence, honesty and responsibility are the four most important foundations for one's growth and development. Each of these four foundations is not easy to succeed, and it needs long-term persistence, tempering and effective self-management. Many times, especially when we start to do something, we often feel that we don't know how to start, and sometimes we are at a loss. But if you keep doing it, keep doing it, maybe at some point, you will find that you are doing well. But then, when you see someone doing better than you, you should reflect on your own shortcomings, learn from others with an open mind and report one for yourself? Not worse than others? The spirit of continuous efforts to improve, self-confidence will be gradually established, and people will slowly learn to grow.
Rule 5: Decide what you can do.
Isn't life a long way? In the years of walking, it is the flowing scenery that keeps slipping from my eyes. People's own limitations (limited time, limited energy, limited ability and limited knowledge) force them to plan well and choose the right thing to do.
First of all, determine your own personality, know what you can do, what you can try through hard work, and what you can't do at all. Then I will find a platform suitable for my personality development, and constantly adjust myself in this environment suitable for my personality to better adapt to this environment. ? Do things successfully? The basis is to go from the beginning? Do the right thing?
Rule 6: Break the window of the soul and make eye contact.
In interpersonal communication, eyes can sometimes play a positive role and sometimes play a negative role. If you pay close attention, you will find enough information from other people's eyes. Of course, you can also enhance your self-confidence by adjusting your vision, so as to win the possibility of an opportunity. Eyes can be formed by learning and training-mirror practice.
Rule 7: Only you can save you.
College students are relatively independent. Whether it is study, life or extracurricular activities, there is room for relative expansion. They need to think for themselves, make their own decisions, and sometimes endure some loneliness. College students should have the energy of self-regulation and sometimes the necessary self-motivation. In most life, people often turn to themselves for help. People should learn to motivate themselves, encourage themselves, help themselves and climb up step by step. Self-motivation is a catalyst for a person's development and a gas station to help him succeed. Believe that you are a useful material and you will be full of energy at any time.
Rule 8: Stimulate your potential
Potential is a very macro concept, and every college student has potential. Many college students fail to do things because of themselves? Afraid of difficulties? It's too heavy, and I always feel that I can't do it. I feel that others' abilities are stronger than mine. There are various ways to stimulate a person's potential, and the pursuit of personal ideals and grand goals can stimulate your potential; Unyielding psychology can stimulate your potential; Constant self-motivation and harmonious interpersonal relationships can also stimulate potential. The stimulation of potential exists between conscious and unconscious, which comes from whether you love your life and working environment or not, and from your inner unwillingness to be mediocre.
Rule 9: Keep climbing and motivate yourself.
Isn't life just climbing mountains? I've been climbing, and it's endless. Sometimes stop and think about it. Suppose one day you are successful, but you still can't stop. Is this for everyone? Inertia These climbers know very well that sometimes the distance between failure and success is not far, and sometimes it is just a thin line. Many times in life, turning defeat into victory may only take an idea, the next action, and then your unremitting efforts. In fact, many people's seemingly impossible goals are easy to achieve with the passage of time in the process of completing these small goals. Because people are constantly motivated by the completion of several small goals in the process of trying to accomplish these seemingly impossible goals, there is always a feeling of infinite strength. Reward yourself at the right time and believe in it? I can do it. ,? I can hold on. .
Rule 10: Don't ask me why, some things don't need a reason.
Sometimes, a person's accidental decision will often change the direction of his life. Maybe it's an impulse, maybe it's out of curiosity, don't ask me why, some things don't need a reason, and experience itself is a kind of beauty.
Rule 1 1: broaden your horizons.
Many college students have their own life goals, but they lack daily goals. The goal of every day is not a grand cause, nor a lofty ambition, but just some ordinary things, but you must finish it on the same day, so that you will feel satisfied and happy.
People, when to do something, college time is the time to study, but also the most enjoyable time to learn. There is a large library in the university. If you don't understand, you can ask the teacher. College students should make full use of these unique learning conditions to learn more knowledge and learn more knowledge by themselves. On the premise of lacking social experience, you should learn a lot of knowledge to make up for the lack of experience. Although you haven't tried, at least you will.
Law 12: Action makes sense.
No one can consistently maintain the initial fighting spirit in action, especially when encountering difficulties. So we might as well analyze the goal and break it down into several small phased goals, so that each phased goal will be encouraged and a goal that is difficult to achieve will be realized unconsciously.
Besides, don't always bury yourself in your work when you are acting. In the process of doing things, you might as well occasionally look up to see if your actions have deviated from the right track and avoid deviating from the general direction. If necessary, take some notes, sort out your thoughts and write down specific ideas on paper from time to time, which will be more organized. Once the goal is determined, it should be written into your action declaration and turned into words, which will inspire you to move towards this goal.