My brother went for a massage after graduating from college. How can I convince him?
Read your question carefully and talk about my opinion: first of all, you must let him finish high school, and then decide what to do in the future ... 1. After reading your self-report, I know that you care about your brother. You're smart, and you feel supportive (you can't fool smart) ...; You are a sister, and you have realized the problem of "life goal" at this age. Not simple, but promising performance; It is also the spiritual pillar for your brother to change his mind and continue to overcome difficulties; 3. However, "there are always swift horses, and Bole is not often there"; What are the few things that extraordinary people have and earth-shattering achievements? ! Therefore, "everything rises from the ground" ... 4. After finishing high school, if you don't want to work, the rest is to start your own business and be your own boss ... 5. Either continue studying (under the premise of changing situation) and make a "cadre-civil servant" sprint. After all, you are still young and can run around, as long as you get rid of working, even if you are a two-foot street vendor ... the problem is that you really haven't thought about it yet. 6. You want to set a future goal: you have to start with your brother's specific situation (after graduation)-it takes three months to conceive (to inspect the market, industry, quotation and information), and then three to six months to raise funds (unless you already have an economic foundation); Be sure to do that line! How to do it and how big it is; (If it is a stock, you need to have overall experience in stock investment, operation and management ...) 7. All behaviors are rational. A clever leader, a team assembled after investigation, will certainly gain step by step and grow slowly ... 8. Heartbeat is the beginning of action; Action requires planning, consultation with parents and communication with younger brother (the plan covers all necessary conditions); Once the conditions are met, you should put it into practice ... that's called struggle! Or do your own thing together ... Off-topic: my child graduated from undergraduate course at the age of 24 for three years and jumped to foreign-funded enterprises twice; I'm still in a daze ... so it takes time and energy to break in on my own ... why don't you think about something in advance and set a goal ... please accept the advice of this 53-year-old man. ...