First of all, we should talk to our children about the advantages of being a cadre in a university: for example, in terms of ability training, we can exercise different aspects from others and have good communication with classmates. If you can get close to the counselor and the class teacher, you will get the moon first. Also, enterprises attach great importance to recruitment, and class cadres can join the party first, which will save a lot of trouble after work.

Secondly, if children still don't want to be generals, or have no confidence, they should be encouraged more. There are no born generals in the world, and there are no soldiers who don't want to be generals. He will always succeed as long as he does it.

Finally, having said that, you still don't want to run for public office, so let nature take its course and respect your children's choices.