First, be faithful to love. Whether as a boyfriend or a husband, whether on campus or in the workplace, for women, loyalty is always the first. Most of the love in college is the first love, and everyone has a heart for perfection, and there is no room for any sand in his eyes. A little other wrong thoughts may cause great trauma to girls and even have a far-reaching impact. So the most important thing to be a competent boyfriend is to love her only, both in my heart and in my mouth. Don't praise other girls for their beauty in front of her, don't give other girls gifts, just really like her.
Second, be gentle and considerate. Love in college is the most beautiful and the weakest, because neither of them knows love, so it is easy to get hurt, just like flowers in a greenhouse need careful care. Be patient with girls, be gentle and considerate, help her occupy a seat in the classroom, buy her breakfast in the dormitory and send it downstairs. If she is unhappy, be patient and coax her. For a girl in her early twenties, these are all concrete manifestations of your love and will be extremely important. Even her mood fluctuates every day because of your actions. When she loses her temper with you, think carefully about whether there is anything that makes her unhappy. Since you like her, you should try to think from her point of view.
Third, there is responsibility. Love in college is ignorant, there are always some unknown and curious territories to explore, and there is always an impulse to cross the border from time to time. Although the times are becoming more and more open, people are becoming more and more tolerant of sexual issues. As adults, college students have the right to decide for themselves when to taste the forbidden fruit for the first time. However, as a boy, we must have a sense of responsibility on this issue. If you want to cherish a girl, you should cherish her chastity and never abandon her at the beginning. Since no one can guarantee that he will enter the marriage hall in the future, he should be more cautious on this issue, fully respect the meaning of girls, and not be forced or persecuted. In addition, we must take protective measures to prevent girls from causing any harm to the body.
Fourth, study hard for your love. There is more than love in college. For a better future, as a competent boyfriend, you should study hard, earn a good future for yourself and the girl, and really love her.