Several types:
1, starting from scratch, and finally achieving something.
A boy has been doing well in the exam. I didn't show the upper-middle level when I was an undergraduate. Before graduation, he suddenly performed badly, so he was admitted to a master's degree in a famous university in Beijing. A few years later, when we were in ups and downs under the pressure of work, he graduated from finance with almost white hair. Then he returned to a big bank in the province and became a supervisor. At present, he is the vice president of a big bank in a big city in the province.
A female classmate, with an above-average family foundation, actually has only one cultivation atmosphere and environment. After that, thanks to her personal efforts and cleverness, she joined the workers' young women's organization and left the economic field after graduation. At present, she is a young district head of the city.
There are not many people who started from scratch. Some of them have worked hard in the economic field, but they have never seen great Excellence.
2, passed smoothly, not asking for merit but asking for nothing.
Most of them are teachers. After so many years, when I see my old classmates who are teachers again, I still feel that they don't eat fireworks, smell copper and officials, like clouds in the sky, inaccessible and inaccessible.
Occasionally, a male student jumped out to join an accounting firm, then joined a joint venture company and a foreign company as a personnel manager, and finally gave up his business and went back to school. He passed the exam and finally returned to the school where there was no competition. He said that he experienced the sea and finally turned back to the shore. In my opinion, I finally lost to the storm of business and became a coward.
3. Start a business with the start-up funds at home.
This group of people is quite large. Especially in Guangzhou, there are many opportunities, the market is changeable, and the family's economic strength is relatively strong, so I began to prepare to move from the second year of graduation. In the third and fourth years, I have already owned my own company. At first, it was in the form of travel companies and service companies. At present, it mainly focuses on tourism companies, property management and retail.
Female students, especially Ban Hua, traveled across the ocean and came back, becoming white-collar workers in large enterprises. Some people married foreigners, and one of them preferred reading Japanese to English as an undergraduate. Finally, she married a Japanese and wandered between Guangzhou and Japan with her son every year.
4, drift with the tide, more and more backward, more and more out of touch.
Environment is always forcing people to go two ways, most people go down, and only a few people are willing to go up. Just like going downhill on the road, it is easy for people to go down and up because of gravity. Physiologically speaking, "doing work" requires energy, so it is very hard.
My good friend, after graduation, reluctantly chose a secondary school student as her husband. Until now, she is still complaining about her husband's lack of progress (this is his essence, complaining is useless, he can't open the door, he has neither motivation nor thought), and she has given up her chance to make progress again and again. After graduation, I joined a dying state-owned enterprise, and finally resigned because I couldn't stand the low salary and became the manager of a Beijing enterprise in Guangzhou. It was enviable at that time to become a manager so early. But I was so anxious to get married and have children that I had to resign. Because the organization made it very clear that if you have a baby, you have to resign. She gave up her job for the sake of her family. For the next three years, she stayed at home and took care of the children full time. When the child can study, she will come out to work again, which has been out of the social atmosphere and environment for a long time. Economics has begun to move away from her. She entered a company as a salesman. What is the current status? She said: "A large number of retained employees are only handed over to the company, and the company only pays a small salary to the salesmen." She doesn't know where she will be tomorrow, and every day counts.
After listening, I couldn't sleep all night. Guangzhou is a mediocre city, and the dirty environment will force many people to go downhill. And after falling, there are only complaints and sighs, no fighting spirit and no thinking. I dare not say these words to her. I know it's easy to criticize someone, but it's hard to love someone. She is one of my favorite and best friends in my life.
I think that when a person gives up his career and pursuit, he has no right to complain about society.